I don't know if I love him...

I've been dating this guy for a month, we have everything in comman and I thought I might love him. I don't know though, some times we're in the car and all I can think is "I don't love you. I could never love you."
I guess maybe I am just scared of love....
Category Romance

advice from Guest780495 | 08-24-2007 14:46 | E : 1 | S : 0
I have this problem... but its been 6months and he kinda lives with me.

Maybe you are just emotionally guarded
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advice from Guest3235014 | 06-13-2007 14:45 | E : 0 | S : 0
It's ok not to love him. I think if you did love him you would know. It's such a strong feeling that I truly believe you would know it. But a month is a very short amount of time. If he is a good guy and you enjoy his company, give it some time and you may fall deeply in love with him. If you feel like there really is no potential I can't stress enough that IT IS OK NOT TO LOVE HIM. My boyfriend of two years and I recently broke up because we realized that we really just felt like best friends who had good sex. That's not what we want out of a relationship so we are continuing to be in each other's lives but moving on to date other people. Sometimes that's just what happens. So think about it. Do what you need to do. You'll figure it out.
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advice from Guest3632950 | 08-21-2007 22:57 | E : 0 | S : 0
it may just be too early to love him.

take your time.
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advice from Guest936052 | 09-14-2007 11:40 | E : 0 | S : 0
One month is too early to tell if you love a person, you may still just be infatuated by him. Give it time, after spending more time with him you will realise what your true feelings really are.
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advice from Guest3210187 | 09-30-2007 15:18 | E : 0 | S : 0
From the writer:

Turns out I don't love him...
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