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I don't know what's wrong.

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I like guys. Honestly, I do. But when the first emotional attraction phase is gone, I can't move on to the physical level of a relationship. It happens every time. And I really don't mean to do it. I just phycically and emotionally cannot stand to be touched, with sexual intentions or not.

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Submitted 03-26-2007 17:40
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advice from Guest2922286 | 04-19-2007 14:19 | E : 1 | S : 0
I was the same way. you need to find a guy whose personality you are attracted to first and foremost. i am dating my bestfriend, and he's the only guy that i can stand to be with.

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advice from Guest3031079 | 04-30-2007 10:40 | E : 0 | S : 0
I would say that how you are feeling when it comes to that point is not weird at all. But when you are with someone who you feel that you love and this person sincerely loves you, it would then be that time where you will know and become comfortable with him touching you! I guarantee you, you'll love it!

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advice from Guest3107692 | 05-10-2007 10:31 | E : 0 | S : 0
Why rusn anything? You are absolutely normal no matter what compels you to avoid physical contact. Don't go looking for a guy that you might feel that way with. He'll be there when the time is right.

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advice from Guest3107461 | 05-10-2007 12:12 | E : 0 | S : 0
The question is rather, why is it that you can't stand being touched? Do you want to like being touched? I guarantee you won't find happiness with anyone until you uncover the reasons for this. When you discover why, THEN go from there!

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advice from Guest2993605 | 05-12-2007 04:10 | E : 0 | S : 0
Well first, have you ever been molested/raped? If so you should see a doctor or just give it time and talk to a friend, because you're probably still going through the whole grieving process.
If not... then it's all good girl :) I seen this on 20/20 it's called A-Sexual. People who are straight, but don't want sex at all. They don't CHOOSE not to want sex, they just don't like it, that part of them just isn't there. It's normal, there's a lot of people out there like that :)
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