i fall in love with my teacher

iam just a 13 years old and turning 14. i have this teacher whom i realy love. but he is older than me i know this is true love and not a puppy love. he told me that he also like and love me but not as his student but his woman. this person is very religious and i am sure he is telling the truth. but how is that he have a wife and a son? but still he loves me! he never talk to me about dating,kissing, and something about relationships. he told me he really loves mesomuch and its proven he is doing a way just for us to communicate each other. he spend to much money by buying the things i like. and i dont why he likes me. i am not pretty,rich,best,sexy,or smart.i do have lots of pimples on my face but he still keep on loving me. i love him too. he is the person who gave me a whole love that let me feel i am being love.i really like him. but our problem. We cant have a relationship. even though we want to have.any advice
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advice from Guest1184941 | 02-09-2008 16:30 | E : 2 | S : 0
Ummm. Well, it is for sure that you can't have a relationship at this age. Second of all, I don't know how you can prove whether or not you actually love them, and that it isn't puppy love, or simply just infatuation, because you might not have experienced real love yet. Wait another 4-5 years until you turn 18, and see if he still feels that way.
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advice from Guest2313797 | 02-10-2008 23:12 | E : 2 | S : 0
I think that it would depend on how old you really are. I'd say if your 17 and up then go with your heart. If that doesn't work, try being friends, it may hurt but you'll still be close to him, and maybe with time the two of you could work out.
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advice from Guest2293270 | 02-09-2008 16:18 | E : 1 | S : 0
Thats NOT love...
he is just a perverd who wants to get into your pants because you're a naive little 14 year old who wouldnt listen to other people anyways.
Easyest bait for him.

if he actually did love you he would leave you alone because he knows he is to old and married.
stop dreaming girl.
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advice from Guest2302442 | 02-09-2008 18:04 | E : 1 | S : 0
maybe the reason he's telling you he loves you is because he senses that you're vulnerable and wants to take advantage of you. what he's doing is illegal and he knows it. i suggest you tell police or an adult you trust right away before the situation gets out of hand.
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advice from Guest2300086 | 02-09-2008 19:32 | E : 1 | S : 0
He isn't worth it. In reality he won't leave his wife and child for you. It is best to move on.
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advice from Guest3384566 | 02-09-2008 20:41 | E : 1 | S : 0
getting involved with a teacher is always dangerous business. you're still very young, he won't be your last love
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advice from Guest2226455 | 02-10-2008 00:35 | E : 1 | S : 0
Yeah, DON'T.
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advice from Guest2311367 | 02-10-2008 17:14 | E : 1 | S : 0
ok im srry but u cant love a teacher and he cant love you!! he is either using u and letting u hear what u want?? im srry but thats wrong!!! u have to find someone else?!!!!!!
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advice from Guest2312674 | 02-10-2008 20:12 | E : 1 | S : 0
he is a child molester. a child molester can be anyone, including a very religious person, a person who is married, has children, a teacher, a neighbor, anyone. it may seem very innocent right now, him telling you that he loves you, but please do not let it go further than that..i can guarantee you that he would take advantage of you if the two of you were alone.
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advice from Guest2314443 | 02-10-2008 23:59 | E : 1 | S : 0
You don't want a relationship with a man like this. You need to tell another teacher, counselor, parent or some adult that you trust. You may not see it this way, but his actions are completely inappropriate. Think about yourself as an adult - would you ever be involved with a child (you are still just a child)?
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advice from Guest1065457 | 02-13-2008 11:29 | E : 1 | S : 0
I think you should tell another adult you trust about what this teacher has said to you. Think about what you said; he was a wife and kids. He is using you. He may not even be fully aware of it himself, but he is. Somebody of his age and his position of responsibility should know better. You haven't done anything wrong, but please do tell somebody about this before you get hurt.
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advice from Guest1977331 | 02-09-2008 15:19 | E : 0 | S : 0
I'm sorry to have to tell you this sweetheart, but it's not going to work out. He has to be around twice your age and he's married and has a kid. He's not going to leave everything to be with a 14 year old. He may have told you he loves you, but it may just be becuase he's a pervert and hopes to get something from you if you catch my drift. No offense, but you sound like you may have low self-esteem, and he may have singled you about becuase of that. Most predators look for children that they have easy access to such as realtives, friends, students, etc. You are so young and this is your first love. He knows you are innocent and naive. My advice is to NEVER let yourself be alone with this guy. I'm scared for you that he could try to take advantage of you. Something like that could ruin your life. Please, PLEASE be careful.
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advice from Guest2293226 | 02-09-2008 16:06 | E : 0 | S : 0
you need to tell another adult about your teacher. the things the two of you have discussed are not only inappropriate but illegal. this man does not love you; he will hurt you. tell someone you trust and stay away from him.
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advice from Guest2308168 | 02-10-2008 08:27 | E : 1 | S : 1
He doesnt love you.
You are fourteen years old.
Give it up its going to save you and him alot of trouble in the long run.
you dont know what love is at that age.
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advice from Guest2170910 | 02-11-2008 10:34 | E : 1 | S : 1
WATCH OUT, HE IS A PEDOPHILE!!!
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advice from Guest2320767 | 02-11-2008 17:11 | E : 1 | S : 1
run away and tell the authorities and his wife, or you'll end up meeting him at a private cabin where he will keep you as a secret pet. seriously he's a freak.
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advice from Guest2348288 | 02-14-2008 22:10 | E : 0 | S : 0
you are very young don't try and get so caught up in love right now especially not with someone that much older than you, just look for someone about your age to hang out with. he may seem sincere and like he loves you but child molesters are very good liars. i am not saying that he is or isn't but if he has a wife and kids and is saying he loves 13 y/o's it kind of looks that way.

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advice from Guest2370538 | 02-17-2008 14:57 | E : 0 | S : 0
chances are sweetie, hes sees how much of an easy target you are. youre not old enough to have finished puberty and this man is more than twice your age! give yourself some time to think this thru & for the time being, accept thos egifts (if for any other reason than to hold proof against his perverted ways)
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advice from Guest2438644 | 02-23-2008 18:33 | E : 0 | S : 0
please ignore him. he's hurting you. you can move on. i promise you.
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advice from Guest2510666 | 03-01-2008 22:40 | E : 0 | S : 0
NO. this is a dangerous situation. You should deff tell a trusted adult, because this can go too far.
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advice from Guest2877770 | 04-05-2008 03:29 | E : 0 | S : 0
Respect and think of yourself first. You are a human, worthy of love, deserving of the best of it all.

Try your best to not allow him to take the relationship to a physical level. If he does love you he will never pressure you into anything. You are worth the wait. Know that, believe it, trust in it, it's true.

If you have to keep it a secret, then that makes it worth much less than if ever should be. It can and probably will hurt you even if it is true because of having to stay secret. Sharing your love for someone else with friends and family makes it much more special and much more real.

You will do what you want to do because no one can tell you what to do and your heart will always win out.

Love yourself most of all and take the time to know yourself.
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advice from Guest2191728 | 02-11-2008 18:30 | E : 0 | S : 1
keep it the way it is, think about how it could ruin his family, your family, your school, your community and nearly everyone else you love. Be careful, a married man who is a father should notbe falling for his students. Its very creepy! If it really is true love when you are OF LEGAL AGE something should begin to pan out.
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