i feel ashamed

My mom kind of makes fun of me for being fat. And it hurts me really bad, and I want to do something about it, but then all I do is go upstairs and sit on the computer and sneak food up to room. I dont know what to do. I want my clothes to fit me...

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advice from Guest1157114 | 11-10-2007 13:51 | E : 0 | S : 0
when i was in high school my father made fun of me for being ugly and fat. he would always say i sure didn't take after his side of the family. when i moved out and got a job i really worked on myself and lost a lot of weight, started going to the gym, learned to do makeup, got my hair styled and highlighted, and then my dad said i was dressing and looking like a tramp. i changed my life and you can too but it takes work. do it for yourself. sounds like nothing will please your mom.
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advice from Guest1409303 | 11-12-2007 05:07 | E : 0 | S : 0
Your mother is who should be "ashamed"-making fun of you only makes you less confident. ONLY YOU can help yourself and your situation- I KNOW you can take better care of yourself and get fir in the process with willpower that you drudge up from within yourself. Start with little steps, and build them a bit bigger once you have accomplished what you set out to do. BELIEVE IN YOURSELF !!!
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