i feel dirty

i was at a mates birthday trip to pleassurewood hills and i was the only girl in 3 boys there. i gave the rest of my money to 2 of them and me and the other boy went of together on a ride and asked me if he could play with my boobs. at first i said no but then he told me that if i didnt then he tell everyone at school that i was frigid and stuff like that, so i let him on a ride that we were on, but he promised not to tell anyone. but nw he threatens to tell people in my school that i did it and smirks at me everytime i see him. i feel so stupid an dirty.
Category Dirty Little Secret

advice from Guest1179931 | 10-18-2007 18:20 | E : 1 | S : 0
Uh..... why did you give the other 2 boys the rest of your money?
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advice from Guest1693343 | 12-07-2007 21:54 | E : 1 | S : 0
isnt that like rape?
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advice from Guest898623 | 10-07-2007 23:03 | E : 0 | S : 0
Here's a trick- if he tells everyone then just ask him if it really happened which boob had a teardrop birthmark (or mole or freckle, etc) on it- because if it really happened then he would know. Even if he says left or right- you can bust him and say there is NO tear drop birthmark- therefore he must be making it all up! Worked for me!
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advice from Guest1106338 | 10-08-2007 07:35 | E : 0 | S : 0
What an ass... Well, one option would be to fight fire with fire--counter-blackmail.
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advice from Guest1109889 | 10-08-2007 21:07 | E : 0 | S : 0
Deny it to the end!! Tell him to do what he likes, let him tell everyone.....who is going to believe a pr*t like that? Tell him, in front of everyone else, to keep wishing he could have felt you boobs!

Don't let people use you like that again.
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advice from Guest1146214 | 10-13-2007 20:41 | E : 0 | S : 0
To be perfectly honest you should have probably had a little more self respect and told him that wait, nope, you're not being frigid, you're being a normal girl who isn't an object. Future reference?

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advice from Guest1697450 | 12-08-2007 03:19 | E : 0 | S : 0
Sweetie, he is the dirty one. When he smirks at you, you should smile back and be happy knowing he's the one with issues. If you're worried about him telling, take that power away from him. Find someone you trust and tell them how he took advantage of you. Everybody makes mistakes, the first step to fixing them is admitting what happened and asking for help when you need it. It sounds like it wasn't really your fault anyway.
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advice from Guest1108597 | 10-08-2007 17:48 | E : 0 | S : 1
Well you need to ask yourself, does this act define you? Or does the way you love your family and friends and your desire to be better define you? If this one mistake defines you then your stuck this way. But of course this is not true. So just know that you are better than ever doing that again, and that you are different now, as long as you never let anyone make you worry about what others will think of you. Because in the end, our true colors are shown, and he will be known for the pervert he is.
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advice from Guest1492084 | 11-19-2007 01:11 | E : 0 | S : 2
easy what u do is tell him that if he tells u will tell everyone he has a small penis or that u cough him masturbating to gay porn or something along those lines
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