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i feel like a slut.

QuickCode : std sex

I posted a profile in a website so i could met guys. i met one and he invited me to go out but i refused several times because i'm very insecure about my appearence. finally i accepted, we ended up having sex. we've been dating just for sex and i feel guilty for it. i want someone to love me but in the surface i think i don't deserve it. i can't refuse sex because that's the only way to feel that someone care after me. now i'm afraid i have a std.
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Submitted 08-14-2007 07:33
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advice from Guest3655277 | 08-20-2007 20:18 | E : 2 | S : 0
Sweetheart, you are not a slut. You are confused. Shut your profile down, talk to your friends and family who love you for YOU, if that doesnt help speak to a counsellor who will give you professional advice but if you keep on sleeping with this guy you will only keep hurting yourself. See your doctor if you're concerned about STDs. People are out there and they will help you. I'm sure you are a beautiful and very lovable person, give it time. Everyone feels insecure.
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advice from Guest3616805 | 08-22-2007 20:59 | E : 1 | S : 0
Get tested. It is reasonable to worry about an STD - but the odds are still in your favour for now. Stop selling yourself short - focus more on what you are looking for in a man than what a man might look for in you.
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advice from Guest878479 | 09-06-2007 02:57 | E : 0 | S : 0
me too. I have already had one twice and look what happend again. Best thing to do is go get tested soon and take care of it.
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advice from Guest1218686 | 10-24-2007 13:09 | E : 0 | S : 0
You are worth so much more. Pleaseeeeeeeeeeee don't do this just because you think no one loves you. I don't want to read the bible or gita here, but we are all here for a purpose and this is not yours. You will find someone to love you for you. Please have faith. Keep your head up high and smile. Your true love is walking by.

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advice from Guest2829385 | 03-31-2008 23:52 | E : 0 | S : 0
i feel like i have gone through the exact! same thing might be the same lying sob... british ???
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