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I felt ashamed

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I told everyone that i was molested just so everyone wouldn't think i was weird for not wanting to do ANYTHING sexual with my boyfriends.

I'm 17.
Category General Confession

Submitted 11-25-2007 19:30
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advice from Guest3285745 | 12-23-2007 14:14 | E : 0 | S : 0
there's nothing weird about that, you're just not ready. no big deal. do me a favor and don't lie about being molested though. some of us actually have been molested, and you can't even imagine what it's like

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advice from Guest1864146 | 12-23-2007 14:50 | E : 0 | S : 0
im 17, and although im not in the same situation, nearly all of my friends have not done anything with their boyfriends. there is a guy would respect what you want and wait for you to be ready, you just need to find him. be careful of your lie, it could become out of hand. maybe a better one would be that your saving yourself for your wedding night- or better yet, telling the truth ! if people turn their back on you for your own self-respect, they werent worth your time anyway. love XXXX

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advice from Guest1872821 | 12-24-2007 11:10 | E : 0 | S : 0
My male roommate (I'm female) thinks i was raped. I just didn't want him to know i was a virgin.
I'm 23.
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advice from Guest2151322 | 01-23-2008 03:29 | E : 0 | S : 0
I didn't want to do anything sexual until I was 19... and I am glad I waited because I found a steady relationship with someone I love dearly and it makes him feel great knowing that I haven't "been around" and it makes me feel good too.
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