I hate my deformed arm

I was born with a deformed arm. I hate it. I know it makes people feel uncomfortable, and I hate to do that to people. I just want to be normal and fit in, so I am very quiet and try to never do anything that someone might not like. I only have an online friend because I have had very few friends my whole life, and I lost touch with all of them after high school. I'm sure no one wants to date someone with a deformed arm either, so I don't even try.

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advice from Guest2959150 | 04-23-2007 16:50 | E : 0 | S : 0
That's not true, Someone probably already loves you.


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advice from Guest3106916 | 05-10-2007 08:48 | E : 0 | S : 0
I saw a lady on t.v. that was born with no lower body. After her stomache, there was nothing. And she was married with children. There is someone out there, and you will find him. When I met my fiane, we just clicked instantly. And I know that if something was wrong with his arm, we still would have fell in love.

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advice from Guest3214513 | 06-08-2007 19:32 | E : 0 | S : 0
A very good friend of mine is missing a hand. He is one of the best people i know. Caring, genuine, smart. I dont even notice his "deformity" (for lack of better word). He has a confidence about him tho that is so much more distraacting, in a good way. In fact, he embraces himself...and is able to talk openly (sometimes). Anyhow, try to emulate the good,...people recognize that in human beings.
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