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I hate the things that make me hate

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I hate that after my dad died my mom told me there was someone else the same night and was engaged a month later, married six months after that, moved far away and left me alone. I hate that I really like her husband and I'm happy for them. I hate that my son's father decided (after 9 years) that just because he's a boy, he should be with his dad and tried to take him away from me. I hate that after being so strong for the first 30 years of my life, the last year and a half has made none of it worth it. I hate that I will never hear my dad call me his little "sea-girl" again. I hate that no matter how many friends surround and love me, I am so desperately alone. I hate that these are my secrets and they are destroying me from the inside out. I hate that I can never and will never be the person I was before these things I hate came along.
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Submitted 01-30-2007 17:06
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advice from Guest821011 | 02-05-2007 17:29 | E : 2 | S : 0
I feel like your father would have wanted you to find a way to be happy and you would honor his memory if you can do that. I bet your strength is appreciated by your son more than you realize even if he doesn't always make the right decisions.
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advice from Guest2418221 | 02-25-2007 03:39 | E : 0 | S : 0
There is a simple "cure" for how you are feeling. You are focusing on everything you do not want. Find something - anything - to focus on that you appreciate and feel grateful for it. Then focus on whatever you can find about your life that you love. Replace any negative feeling or thought with what you are grateful for and what you love and your entire life will change. I highly recommend the movie The Secret. You can read about it online and it has recently been mentioned on Oprah. Like most of us you've been conditioned to focus on what you don't want and that gets you more and more of it. Learn to focus on what you love instead and what you love will fill your life.
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advice from Guest2866132 | 04-14-2007 20:04 | E : 0 | S : 0
Pray.

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