I know he's using me.

I know that he doesn't give a damn that I am an actual girl who feels and loves; I know that he cheats on me; I know that if I didn't put out, he would leave me in a second. I am so in love with him, these things don't make a difference. Sometimes I just wish he could love me back.
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advice from Guest1023311 | 09-25-2007 23:38 | E : 5 | S : 1
i know exactly how you feel. iv been in the same position i am now. i love this man so much i cant seem to let him go. i wish he loved me. what attracts me to him is the way he is so alone in his life and has no one there. hes depressed with his life and is going nowhere, i want to help him but i dont think il ever get through to him. i know il have to let him go soon unless he changes, but i doubt he will. its a heartbreaking situation i know but theres only one way to be happy and thats not by feeling used in a relationship, its by letting go and moving go. good luck and i hope you find the strength and courage to let go of him. also dont make exscuses for his behavious you deserve to be treated with love and respect, the kind of love you feel and show to him.
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advice from Guest3126054 | 05-15-2007 07:22 | E : 5 | S : 2
He wont he is an arse hole and he will never ever ever love you.
There are heaps out there like him. Let me guess he makes you feel beautiful, sexy in control but your not. He is secretive and wont include you in his life, lies all the time, keeps telling you things but doesn't follow through with all those promises. Borrows money never gives it back.
Expects sex yet wont love you. Takes but never gives. Doesnt take you anywhere romantic etc etc etc. Dont worry we have all been there some time or another. You have to ask yourself was this time better than the last time we broke up OR is it all the same bullshit you have been
given time and time again. Is your self esteem that low you cant leave.
Lonely hearts deserve better. Tired of picking up the pieces of your heart i am.

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advice from Guest3120132 | 05-13-2007 21:12 | E : 2 | S : 1
get away from him

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advice from Guest3134498 | 05-17-2007 10:13 | E : 3 | S : 2
you need to learn to love yourself before anyone else can love you...learn your own self worth

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advice from Guest3217336 | 06-16-2007 19:25 | E : 1 | S : 0
i completely get why you havent left him...obviously because you love him...i'm going through the same thing with my guy right now, and because of my stupidity, i've lost myself. i do love my guy, more than i'll ever be able to describe, but enough is enough. a person can only go through so much crap.
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advice from Guest3242703 | 06-15-2007 08:52 | E : 0 | S : 0
I've been there also.... I was with a man just like yours. He left me standing in an airport twenty years ago and simply walked away without even a goddbye.... Now twenty years later we got in touch again and I figured for sure with time and growning up he had to have changed... well, nope! He talked for a few times on the phone and proceeded to do exactly what he did long long ago... talk about sex and that's it. Sweetie, these men are all the same the one like you have. They are selfish and don't give a damn about any one but themselves. Get away from him, and find someone who will treat you like a princess...easier said than done, I know... but love yourself enough to get the trash man out of your life... There is no changing him, and no thing that will happen with time... he isn't capable of it ....PERIOD.
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advice from Guest3246062 | 06-16-2007 06:29 | E : 1 | S : 2
Thank you for posting this - I'm in exactly the same situation so it's nice to know I'm not alone. Ask yourself whether you are happier with him on your life or without. I wouldn't change things for the world. He makes me happy and sad in equal measures - that's far better than never feeling anything atall.
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advice from Guest3247788 | 06-16-2007 18:28 | E : 0 | S : 1
i am currently dealing with the same...run. GET AWAY! Before you end up as deep as I am and most of your life is ruined. I have a long way to go to fix what i've gotten from this. I hope you get out before its too late.
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advice from Guest3247919 | 06-16-2007 19:51 | E : 0 | S : 1
My last relationship was just like this. Lose him, get out and meet other people, people that are worth your time; thats the best way to get over a jerk.
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