I love my parallel cousin.Cross cousin marriages are allowed in my community but not parallel cousin
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My parents are looking in for a bridegroom now.Even though they know something about my love they don't want to reveal to me that they know about it.In my society cross cousin marriage is perfectly legal but parallel cousing are considered as brothers and sisters...I am helpless.I can't tell my parents that I am in love with him...I dont want hurt them by saying this.Can I go ahead and marry some other person whom my parents find for me?My BF is not in a position to leave me..he gets too hurt when I tell him some traces of this.Both of us love our parents and don't want them to get hurt.But I can't forget him.Can I live happily without him?Is my happiness or my parents so important,My sister is married and I am 24...Everyone started asking my parents about my marriage and they are urging me to get married to someone who they find...
Please help ..Need some advice.Am I making a mistake.I love him truly...Tell me what will you do if you are in my position.
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Submitted 10-09-2007 03:06
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advice from Guest1580350 | 11-28-2007 00:20 | E : 1 | S : 0
You can't let your parents make the decision on who you love and marry. If you're in love with him then you can't change it, it's love.
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advice from Guest1990143 | 01-18-2008 02:34 | E : 0 | S : 0
whats the difference between a parallel cousin and a cross cousin?
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advice from Guest2336497 | 02-13-2008 14:16 | E : 0 | S : 0
Parallel cousins: mother's sister's child, father's brother's child (children of same sex siblings)
Cross cousins: mother's brother's child, father's sister's child (children of opposite sex siblings)
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advice from Guest2379248 | 03-07-2008 15:17 | E : 0 | S : 0
never settle for less than true love.
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advice from Guest2536355 | 03-09-2008 15:38 | E : 0 | S : 0
That cousin crap doesnt matter. its barely even different. forget about ur parents if they cant understand
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advice from Guest2592375 | 03-10-2008 16:16 | E : 0 | S : 0
With your current state of confusion, perhaps you should not marry anyone just yet. Go be yourself for a while...you're only 24.
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advice from Guest1433663 | 03-22-2008 22:08 | E : 0 | S : 0
If I was in your position, I wouldn't marry someone that I didn't love. It's YOUR life and you should take control of it. It shouldn't be up to your parents who you marry. You shoudl tell your parents what you think.
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advice from Guest2764050 | 03-26-2008 15:50 | E : 0 | S : 0
Unfortunately, sometimes you must force your head to be stronger than your heart.
Perhaps, instead of marriage at this point, you could try joining the Peace Corps, or something like that, something away so you can learn what YOU really want, and who YOU really are.
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advice from Guest1560214 | 12-01-2007 23:34 | E : 0 | S : 1
Just educate yourself on the risks of having children together.
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advice from Guest1786524 | 12-16-2007 07:08 | E : 0 | S : 1
you should be with the peron you love.
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