I love my Teacher

Im only 14 and I'm so madly in love with my 27 year old teacher. And the thing is I think the feeling is mutual, he acts as though im not a student, but a woman. Not that I would act on this but, It feels tempting, any advice?
Category Dirty Little Secret

advice from Guest1282449 | 10-30-2007 04:01 | E : 3 | S : 0
Things like this happen every year. I sorry dear but there are creepy teachers out there. I dont know if you are just starting high school or what your life story is but guys in general want one thing and thats to get in your pants. Do you seriously think for one second that this guy actually loves you? You don't even know what love is yet your only 14! For starters, I think you need to be honest with yourself. If this guy is as great as you think he is don't you think that he could get some chick his own age? If this teacher is doing this to you think he might be doing this to others girl students? Then again the whole thing could be in your head by the way its called puppy love and its hardly ever real. Get your head on straight and study the studies and not the teachers biceps. Hope I was of any help I dont mean to come off as a prude but be careful you could get raped that way.

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advice from Guest1065457 | 10-28-2007 16:11 | E : 2 | S : 0
Don't do it. It would ruin his career and over-complicate your life. At his age, he should know better, but if not, then it's up to you to be the responsible one.

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advice from Guest1240856 | 10-30-2007 23:46 | E : 2 | S : 0
In two to three years when you leave your school, you'll realise that boys your age are capable of giving you what he can.

What you feel, wont work. It will.. as bad as it sounds.. ruin his life. How many times have you heard of a teacher doing something their student? Their life is destroyed.

As mature as you feel, you are only young. You have much to learn about love, relationships and men.

There is a difference between a man respecting you, and loving you.

Cheer up, there are actually 'plenty of fish in the sea' :)

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advice from Guest1172652 | 10-26-2007 19:29 | E : 1 | S : 0
Oh, I know you think you love him, I know! When I was 14 I had the HUGEST crush on one of my dad's younger friends ( he was in his 20s ) it wasnt until I was in myu 20s that I ACTUALLY fell in love and realized all those feelings when I was younger were just nothing short of crushes.

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advice from Guest1366429 | 11-08-2007 06:30 | E : 1 | S : 0
Hun, that's just not okay, and I'm sure your teacher knows it too. With regards to a relationship, you and he are in very different emotional stages of life, and it would really not be feasible. Although he may be treating you like an adult in the classroom, it would not work the same way outside of it. In terms of sex, if he did anything with you, even if you initiated it, he would be a criminal, lose his job, and be put on a publicly available list of sex offenders. Statutory rape. Bad idea.

I know emotions run strong at that age, but give it time. As you get older, age difference becomes less important, but at this stage of your life the difference is too great.

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advice from Guest1410221 | 11-12-2007 07:56 | E : 1 | S : 0
Do you want to end up on the news...wait it out....love is better when you don't have to worry about scrutiney
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advice from Guest1271677 | 10-28-2007 21:16 | E : 0 | S : 0
Don't act on it... at all. As I young woman, I was drawn to older men because I wanted a relationship with a "mature" man. Now that I am approaching 40, I know that these men were in fact quite immature, chasing their youth through their involvement with me. Don't give up your youth to a 27 year old. I've often looked at couples that have known on another since they shared their college years together and wondered what I missed by not dating my peers.

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advice from Guest1273713 | 10-29-2007 02:56 | E : 0 | S : 0
stay away from him u are underage, and he can go to jail

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advice from Guest1273738 | 10-29-2007 02:59 | E : 0 | S : 0
not a good idea unless you want to be on broadcasted all over the world, i think you should look at some boys your own age, you will only end up hurting yourself and everyone that loves you,

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advice from Guest1278529 | 10-29-2007 15:14 | E : 1 | S : 1
find a therapist and explore your relationship and feelings about your father

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advice from Guest1256850 | 10-31-2007 02:21 | E : 0 | S : 0
I don't want to hurt your feelings sweetie, but a man that age is looking for a person with a different maturity level, a person that is experienced in life (many different aspects), a person that can share life with him the same way as he would...he is a grown up man, and life for you has not even begun! Find another boy whose closer to your age, trust me.

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advice from Guest1322745 | 11-04-2007 04:33 | E : 0 | S : 0
sometimes you think someone is more interested than they are...it's not a bad thing, we all do it. especially when we want it to be true sooo bad. be careful you don't want to get either you or him in trouble.

or i could be completely wrong and he could be a creep.
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advice from Guest1387810 | 11-09-2007 20:32 | E : 0 | S : 0
Don't act on it. You'll regret it. You have 4 more years. If you still feel the same then as you do now... Then you can go for it.

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advice from Guest1654101 | 12-04-2007 16:13 | E : 0 | S : 0
yess, i feel the same way. I'm 14 and my teacher's 28 and like i feel like he treats me differently. What do I do? i cant stop thinking about him
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advice from Guest1917134 | 12-28-2007 23:38 | E : 0 | S : 0
I"m 15 i'm a freshmen i really love my gym teahcer, in he always play with me but that don't mean he like me but i really in love with him !!!!!!!!!!

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