I STILL LOVE HIM

My exboyfriend and I have been broken up for over a year and I sill love him. We still spend a lot of time together, and I mean a lot of time. We do not have a sexual relationship, but we sleep in the same bed 3-4 times a week and its better than any sex could ever be. He has truly become my best friend. Do I risk losing him as friend and tell him how I feel or do I continue to be miserable and pretend that I am ok with our relationship. You people don't understand, I am so in love with this man, I will do what ever he were to ask me, go where he would ask me. Please tell me what I should do.
Category Romance

advice from Guest2183707 | 01-27-2008 00:12 | E : 0 | S : 0
i dont have any advice for u
actually i came looking for some i jst broke up with my bf and we were together for a little less than a year we lived together we were getting married we had a plan for the future it jst hurts im jst alone i need something someone
how do i do it?
how do u do it?
sry for taking ur time
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advice from Guest2187482 | 01-27-2008 12:52 | E : 0 | S : 0
Chances are he loves you too :)
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advice from Guest2225586 | 01-31-2008 18:15 | E : 0 | S : 0
If you haven't married him yet, then there's obviously a reason. You need to force yourself to seperate from him and allow yourself the opportunity to meet new men and establish relationships with them. Otherwise, you'll get so wrapped up in the moment that you will end up getting married in Las Vegas under the pretence that 'you're comfortable with one another.' Sounds like he's been very patient regarding sex but I'll bet he's been giving you lavish gifts and shoving a ring at you. Trust me, he'll be thrilled to marry you (hopefully it's love and not obsession on his part) and keep you under his close grip - you'll never truly be independant - and worse - you'll never be really happy. Instead, you'll spend the rest of your days trying to make him happy.

Get out of this situation ASAP.
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advice from Guest2234223 | 02-01-2008 19:52 | E : 0 | S : 0
he's infatuated with you and looking at that golden prize. once he get's it, he'll struggle to try and prove that's not all he wanted from you - he'll even marry you if need be. but you know in your heart you love a lot about him but you're not in love with him. so it'll be an empty marriage with you struggling to keep up appearances for his sake and you family's but never think about whether or not you're satisfied.
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