i think i need help
QuickCode : sarafina1
i think i have serious issues with my parents, i think i wouldnt care if they stopped living,all because i was molested when i was 8 by my dad's brother and my parents did nothing when i finally confessed...my dad threatened to cane me, a few yrs later my mum denied the whole incident even happened, My dad has cheated onmy mom since i was 8 and i have seen his gfs, she has had 3 strokes because of him, I hope i never see them again...they are like a virus,i am afraid i might be like my mother, hopelss and a slave to a man....I hope i NEVER EVER become like her...I think i kinda hate them... and thats sad:(
Category Dirty Little Secret
Submitted 10-07-2007 04:39
Visited 563 times. 90.00 Compelling Rating (rated 3 times) 85.00 Sincerity Rating (rated 2 times)
advice from Guest1133121 | 10-12-2007 00:44 | E : 0 | S : 0
just get out when you can. you may feel bad in a a way but you have to do what is best for you. your the only thign you have.
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advice from Guest1159348 | 10-19-2007 18:38 | E : 0 | S : 0
You dont need to forgive them. When you turn 18, move out. Im so sorry. You have no idea how much I hate my parents too, but this isent about me. Just forget about them. Good. Shes suffering. Look what shes done to you? I know this sounds harsh to say but thats what I would do. Thats what I am doing. Good luck babe.
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advice from Guest1693343 | 12-07-2007 21:57 | E : 0 | S : 0
i feel so bad for you.
im sorry this ever happend to you,
im sorry this happens to anyone
& that truly sucks that the one person youre sposed to be able to count on
you couldnt
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advice from Guest1759726 | 12-13-2007 21:16 | E : 0 | S : 0
you'll be like her if you hope not to be like her....the only way is to forgive her....i know it's hard..but believe me...it's the only way....
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advice from Guest1827693 | 12-19-2007 17:25 | E : 0 | S : 0
even though you might not have great parents, that shouldnt stop you from fufilling your own life. the fact that you notice their problems should help you out even more. now that you know, dont let it happen! be strong!
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advice from Guest1144677 | 10-13-2007 17:35 | E : 0 | S : 1
To be fully free from your past, and the things that happened to you, you need to forgive them. To forgive them it doesn't mean to be all close with them and be around them if they make you feel like crap. It means that you silently forgive them so you feel no bitterness when you think about them. It will only be THROUGH THIS, that you will overcome these obstacles and be the person that you truly DESIRE to become.
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