i want sex

I'm 15, a virgin, and want to have sex SO BAD! I love my boyfriend with all my heart but I haven't had sex with him because at times I picture him cheating on me and in reality if one of us were to cheat on the other one it would be me that cheats..
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advice from Guest3264643 | 06-20-2007 21:36 | E : 8 | S : 3
i understand your desire for sex. ever since i was 10ish i wanted sex. i did have sex when i was 16. im 19 now and i have a son. don't have sex until your married. its worth the wait. you dont want to end up pregnant. when your having sex with someone (protected or not) your basically choosing the father of your child. i thought the father of my son was a nice guy that id be with forever. but life isnt about fairy tale endings. be smart and just wait.
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advice from Guest823241 | 08-28-2007 20:25 | E : 5 | S : 2
getting pregnant will change your life forever. you will ruin your heart if you have an abortion. just wait. masturbate.
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advice from Guest1395515 | 11-10-2007 18:10 | E : 3 | S : 0
Definitely wait. I know it's hard, but I agree that any time you have sex with someone, you're choosing him to be the father of a maybe - whether you get pregnant or not. And it's not worth that pain.
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advice from Guest3325880 | 07-04-2007 16:16 | E : 2 | S : 0
id wait im 16 an altho all my mates have sex i havent ive been with my bf for three yrs hes 19 yes he has cheated on em in the past but its not all about sex
sex is just like object that is worthless
were as love is something to fight for
if one cheated what could u say but we had sex
no
but u cud say but we love eahc other
wait untill u kwno u love him and ur sure he loves u to
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advice from Guest3461176 | 07-26-2007 17:15 | E : 2 | S : 0
Its ok to have urges but just wait a little while, Dont get caught up in the moment once its gone you'll never get it back, its not about being old fashioned or anything but your young have fun and when the time is right you'll know
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advice from Guest1001339 | 09-22-2007 18:31 | E : 3 | S : 1
do you masturbate? if not, do it. it's easier and safer.
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advice from Guest3313146 | 07-01-2007 23:03 | E : 2 | S : 1
okay that advice about doing it with a random is completely stupid. Wait as long as you can to have sex. Then use a condom! If you are afraid of one of you cheating, then you are not ready to have sex yet.
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advice from Guest864417 | 09-04-2007 18:17 | E : 2 | S : 1
i know you wanna explore and have sex for the first time but wait its the best thing to do. When that guy comes along it will be worth it but dont lose it to whoever just cause your curious.
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advice from Guest1044925 | 09-29-2007 03:40 | E : 2 | S : 1
WAIT IT WILL BE MUCH BETTER WHEN YOUR OLDER
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advice from Guest2220952 | 01-31-2008 03:42 | E : 1 | S : 0
your feelinga are normal. try other things first, experiment with him, sex can wait until you are comfortable and when you are ready use protection. You may find you are happy with pleasing eachother in other ways and dont need sex.
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advice from Guest1987689 | 01-06-2008 15:24 | E : 0 | S : 0
Ask yourself why you want to have sex. Give yourself an honest answer! How much of it is biological and how much is because your peers, movies, and society tell you that it is the thing to do. Your body's needs can be dealt with through fantasy and masturbation. Explore and know yourself a LOT before being with a partner. You will be a more confident and capable lover and will have a much more fulfilling sex life for years to come. If you are too young and unsure of what your body really wants you will learn nothing about yourself rushing into sex.
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advice from Guest3414380 | 07-19-2007 17:54 | E : 0 | S : 2
you are 15, cool down a bit, wait till you are at least 16. You will feel better about yourself especially when your kids ask you how old you were your first time. Also, you need to get on birth control a month before you have sex but you also need to use condoms. Please listen to me, my friends didn't and now three of them have kids and one had an abortion. None of us are over 20.
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advice from Guest857260 | 09-03-2007 17:18 | E : 0 | S : 3
I first started wanting sex when I was around 13, but I was so ashamed I would just deny it. I ended up having sex when I was 17, which happened a couple of months ago. My boyfriend broke up with me and I feel horrible. I kinda wish I had waited, because now I really crave sex but I have no one to get it with. Plus, it really hurts the first time so if you do have sex, I suggest you first do it with a guy with a really small member so it won't hurt as much. My boyfriend was huge and it killed.
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advice from Guest1502095 | 11-20-2007 00:38 | E : 0 | S : 4
have protected sex when your ready. Don't worry about being married. you shouldn't get married until your at least 30.
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advice from Guest3253449 | 06-18-2007 09:48 | E : 1 | S : 16
Nice! I'd say don't do it with him first. Do it with a random that nobody knows and who you'll never see again. That's what I did. It gave me the confidence to have sex with a guy that I really liked and I have the random to thank for letting me blow the guy away and making him come back for more. And think about it, you're 15. Cheating on this guy won't be the end of it for you. What we say where I come from is that you should be like a bee and go from flower to flower before settling down, otherwise how will you know that you've got the sweetest nectar? It also teaches you what you want in a guy and more about yourself and that helps mature you.
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