I want to have sex.
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Okay, I've been dating this guy for over 10 months and I KNOW that I love him. He's perfect in my eyes. And I've been thinking lately that...he's the one. I want to give him the one thing that I can never give to anybody else. My virginity. Now, He's 15 and I'm still 14 (I'll be 15 in May though), but as long as it's protected sex I don't see a problem. I love him and he loves me. It's just that I don't know how to tell him that I want to have sex. He's always let me make the first move. From our first hug to our first kiss and everything after that. That way I can go at my own pace and feel comfortable about our realationship. I just don't know how to tell him! I've always been nervous when it comes to stepping up, but this just takes the cake. So...advice...please.
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Submitted 03-29-2007 11:30
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advice from Guest3148356 | 06-14-2007 20:57 | E : 1 | S : 0
what it really comes down to is how you'll feel about yourself after you do it. if you can honestly say you will be happy about it after even after or if you do break up, then go for it.
i lost my virginity to my boyfriend after 9 months of going out and we both loved each other very much. even after we broke up, i felt i made the right desicion about losing my virginity.
if you love him, and are prepared to deal with all the consequences.. age doesn't matter. just do it baby!
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advice from Guest2934656 | 04-20-2007 13:35 | E : 0 | S : 0
hey your pretty yound so i think you should wait until your atleasr 17. cause incase you havent seen posted coment im hickiemomma you really dont wonna have any sex so goodluck honey bye
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advice from Guest2951283 | 04-21-2007 23:55 | E : 0 | S : 0
She's right, you are too young. A lot of kids your age think that know what love is but they don't. Don't mistake your love for lust.
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advice from Guest2974484 | 04-24-2007 05:09 | E : 0 | S : 0
I'll take the opposite route here. If you MUST have sex with him I think you can get the idea across to him without too much trouble. After all, you are both walking hormones. Let nature take it's course. Just be prepared at ALL times. NO ACCIDENTS!
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advice from Guest2981494 | 04-24-2007 19:59 | E : 0 | S : 0
tell him you're ready when you're making out.
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advice from Guest2996823 | 04-26-2007 08:46 | E : 0 | S : 0
just come out and tell him. don't be scared to tell the truth.
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advice from Guest3231409 | 06-14-2007 17:00 | E : 0 | S : 0
you are way too young. you will regret it even if you think now that you wont.
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advice from Guest3313146 | 07-01-2007 23:33 | E : 0 | S : 0
Wow, he sounds like a great guy and it sounds like a great relationship. I will tell you this: sex is great, but there is nothing as sweet as those early romances where you don't have sex. You can't ever go backwards.
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advice from Guest3325654 | 07-04-2007 15:01 | E : 0 | S : 0
1 out of every 6 condoms fail, are you ready to be pregnant?
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advice from Guest3414380 | 07-19-2007 19:42 | E : 0 | S : 0
go on birth control first.
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advice from Guest1064529 | 10-04-2007 07:50 | E : 0 | S : 0
just do what you normally do to him, and when you get as far as you've gone before, pull out a condom and show it to him, he'll get the idea.
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