im only 15

theres this guy that likes me,and well i like him back.we dont officially go out,since he's never really asked me out and he doesnt say that im his gf or anything.but still we kiss and do well...gf/bf stuff.for some reason i dont think its right....and now im scared cuz we had sex and w/NO condum.i dont know what i was thinking,and now i'm afraid i might be pregnant.i dont know wat to do.
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advice from Guest3241667 | 06-15-2007 03:47 | E : 1 | S : 0
Okay a few things here, 1 don't give yourself away in hopes someone might like you or to make someone like you.. you will only get hurt. Whats done is done now you can go to a pharmacy and pic up a home pregnancy test to determine if you are pregnant... Finally please please protect yourself if you are going to have sex... there are so many STD's out there (besides the risk of getting pregnant) Make the boy wear condoms. it may save your life.
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advice from Guest3229303 | 06-13-2007 12:07 | E : 0 | S : 0
u might not be pregnant
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advice from Guest2570713 | 06-13-2007 14:40 | E : 0 | S : 0
CALL PLANED PARENTHOOD TO HELP YOU
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advice from Guest3250944 | 06-17-2007 16:43 | E : 0 | S : 0
Girl! That's not cool =(
I've been in your position and let me tell you that is not the way to go. He is probably just using you for sex and you will eventually get your feelings hurt. BAD. You should to a drugstore and buy a pregnancy test. Positive or not, you should go to a family planning center to get free condoms and things like that.
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advice from Guest3256809 | 06-19-2007 05:39 | E : 1 | S : 1
at 15 you shouldnt be having sex anyway. but it sounds like this guy is using you. dump him find someone better who will treat you like a princess wait to have sex until you are completly sure go get a pregnency and STD test done and then you will be fine. Dont screw up your future. you only have one life
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advice from Guest3309409 | 07-01-2007 02:33 | E : 0 | S : 0
This is kind of common in places, But you need need need to take a pregnancy test and maybe even go to the doctors. Theres no telling if you could have an STD. Having Sex will not make him Like you any more than he does.
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advice from Guest3313146 | 07-01-2007 22:36 | E : 0 | S : 0
Honey, here's how to tell if a guys likes you: 1) he calls you and wants to be with you (not just for sex) 2) he's proud to be with you and wants his friends to meet you 3) he would never ask you to do something to endanger your health/get you pregnant
He's not doing any of these things. Please go to planned parenthood immediately. Then immediately dump the loser. He doesn't need an explanation. Just tell him you're busy and then BE BUSY. He'll come sweet-talking around, but it wont' mean anything except he wants his booty-call back. You're too good for him!!
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advice from Guest3317689 | 07-02-2007 21:53 | E : 0 | S : 0
You know, it's possible this guy is actually nice. POSSIBLE. Tell him you don't want to do "gf/bf stuff" until you are going out (and he calls you his girlfriend) and that you aren't ready for sex- if he understands well congratulations, you've found a guy who cares about you! Otherwise get outta there. Hope it is all okay!!!
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advice from Guest3414380 | 07-19-2007 17:48 | E : 0 | S : 0
get tested and if it hasn't been to long, take the day after pill. Confront him and tell him you want to be boyfriend and girlfriend and use condoms and get on birth control, don't be stupid.
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advice from Guest1129636 | 10-11-2007 16:41 | E : 0 | S : 0
get tested for std's
maybe tell your mum.
tell the boy you want a proper relationship or nothing.
be the bigger one in the relatioship
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