In love with a boy who's 14, and I'm 16

thing is, I'm a strong christian and so is he, but we almost had sex the other night, and he's 2 years younger! I try to pretend like I have other guys I'm dating to make him jealous, and it works, but the minute I say I "break up" with them, all he wants is physical relationships...We've both begun to lie so much that now we ruined everything we used to have except our physical attractions and ability to "makeout". He's my first love, but I'm leaving for college after next year, and either he's afraid to get involved, or I have a boy 2 years younger than me using me!!!! I've tried to tell him how I feel, but all he said was "o, I didnt' know you wanted to be serious...I just thought we were friends with benefits". So then i gave up. Later, I hear from his best friend that he does that stuff to impress me and sound cool...I'm getting so many mixed signals, but I still love him and don't know what to do.

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advice from Guest812863 | 09-01-2007 04:34 | E : 0 | S : 0
if u really love him the age shouldn't matter and sex should only be an issue because neither of u r old enough to support a child. and u should talk to him more serious and just try to figure out what he really thinks of u and get out wut u think of him, just becareful that u dont come off as a lunatic, like sum ppl who go a little 2 far
neways
i wish the best of luck to the 2 of u!
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advice from Guest2974484 | 04-24-2007 05:46 | E : 0 | S : 1
First off christians have premartial sex also. The age difference doesn't mean anything. What DOES make a differance is the lies. I think you two need to set down and have a good, honest heart to heart talk.

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