It can't be love.

I'm a girl and I am not bi, but I love a girl more than anyone in the world. I am completely in love with one of my best friends, Melanie. We've done anything short of kissing, but it didn't mean the same to you. Whenever I hug you, I stop breathing and I feel dizzy. I get butterflies every time I see you. I only wish that it meant the same to you and that we could be together. It hurts so much more knowing that if I had only been born a guy we would be together.
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advice from Guest1207110 | 10-22-2007 04:40 | E : 1 | S : 0
that happened to me 2 years back. and oh man i remember how that was like for me. and how hard it was cos there would have been more consequences to come my way if i confess how i felt than how it is confessing to a guy. but you get over it. it could be for a while, but yea, this would soon be a faint memory
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advice from Guest1408449 | 11-12-2007 02:16 | E : 1 | S : 0
sometimes You gotta jump off a cliff and let yourself be caught....
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advice from Guest1304940 | 11-02-2007 22:35 | E : 0 | S : 0
i fell in love with my best friend too. one day, we were alone and we just ended up sitting really really close together. then i told her i was in love with her, and she kissed me. perfection. try it.

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advice from Guest1272463 | 11-09-2007 00:25 | E : 0 | S : 0
This is the author.
But what if it doesn't work????
What if she never talks to me again????
I couldn't live...

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advice from Guest1272463 | 11-09-2007 00:28 | E : 0 | S : 0
This is the author.
But what if it doesn't work????
What if she never talks to me again????
I couldn't live...

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advice from Guest1391904 | 11-10-2007 08:29 | E : 0 | S : 0
If you try it, I don't think she'll stop talking to you. She may be a little weird at first if she doesn't feel the same way as you do. If that happens your friendship will continue as friendship nothing more. If the feelings are the same as yours, then you might get what you want. :) good luck to you.

a real friend will be your friend regardless.
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advice from Guest1458445 | 11-16-2007 00:13 | E : 0 | S : 0
Its not alwyas going to be like that. It is ok to be in love with a girl if you are a girl. Remember the feelings you have just described. When entering relationships later in life, don't ever settle for anything less than that.
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advice from Guest3571114 | 11-17-2007 01:15 | E : 0 | S : 0
God. I can completely and utterly relate to this. However, i'm pretty sure I might be bi. And I agree with the poster who said that around 90% of people are somewhat bi. I think its like a spectrum. Anyways...I wish you the best of luck!
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advice from Guest1399901 | 11-11-2007 03:42 | E : 0 | S : 1
You know there's a scale of sexuality. Straight-Bi-gay. Now every1 tends to say they're straight but actaually atleast 90% of thos ppl are actually part way between straight and bi (varying degrees) and in my opinion nothing bad will come of it if u d8 her, it's not like a fling or any thing, is it?
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