Ive cheated before

I always thought that saying once a cheater always a cheater couldn't be true till it happen to me. It's so easy to do once you done it. Ive done it a few times and still kinda doin it if you consider talken to someone over the phone that i care about deeply but lives somewhat far away and also seeing someone i met not very long ago what can i do how can i choose and why can't i stop cheating on the ones that love me instead of the ones that are ____ to me?
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advice from Guest2305173 | 02-10-2008 00:24 | E : 1 | S : 0
This is really crazy, but you are EXACTLY like me. I'm doing the EXACT same thing this very minute/day/second. I'm dating someone here... cheating on them with someone else here... and talking to someone who lives far away.... small world. When you find the secret solution... be sure to let me know... ~M
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advice from Guest1211809 | 12-07-2006 11:35 | E : 1 | S : 1
Perhaps the problem here is that the ones who love you are not what you want. I also know how easy it is to cheat but once you find that person you will never want to cheat on him.
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advice from Guest1009349 | 09-23-2007 23:12 | E : 0 | S : 0
im the same way im living with someone but i love some eles and the person that im in love with he is good to me just do what you do and be happy....
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advice from Guest2243415 | 02-02-2008 22:52 | E : 0 | S : 0
Cheating is ceratinly easier once you have done it. I have done it but every time that I have done it i have been drunk and well, I've done it with every guy I have dated now. And thats only three but still.And sometimes more than once while dating the same guy. And though I was drunk everytime, I can't blame it on that, though that was mostly from the effect. But it's something you just have to promise not to do. If you want to have relations with someone who you arent currently with, You can't be with that person. I learned that...
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advice from Guest2264299 | 02-05-2008 11:12 | E : 1 | S : 1
This may be fun or whatever for you but I promise you - it will seriously MESS UP your partner.

Is this cheap thrill really worth the torment you WILL put your partner (someone you are suppossed to care about) through?

Have you ever experienced the particular feeling I am refferring to?

Obviously not, because if you knew how it felt to have that done to you....If you knew the extent of this particular brand of misery - how long the residual bitterness and angst lasts within you -

I'm sure you wouldn't inflict it so freely on someone else.
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advice from Guest2336542 | 02-13-2008 13:36 | E : 0 | S : 0
You're lying to yourself. I don't know what you want, but you sure as hell had better figure it out, because when the one(s) who love you figure out (and they will) that you're breaking their trust, they're going to disappear from your life, leaving you alone and more messed up than you were before. That being said, I have been both the cheater and the cheatee. I cheated on a girl who, in her own way, loved me with all of her heart. Then I was cheated on by my girlfriend, who I had POURED MY LIFE INTO for over two years. Having seen it all, I'll say this. It's not worth it. It's not worth it. It's not worth it.

There's plenty of pain to go around in this world. That kind is wholly avoidable.
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advice from Guest2382655 | 02-19-2008 00:50 | E : 0 | S : 0
i had cheated before, but i found the one finally, and i couldve cheated but i didnt because i couldnt stop thinking about her. when you find them, you will know what to do.
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advice from Guest1751086 | 01-02-2007 02:55 | E : 1 | S : 3
If you cheat you're breaking the trust the other person put in you and you've just ruined your relationship, if it ends now or later is just a matter of semantics, its over. You don't love them, you don't care about them, you're so self absorbed that all you care about is YOU. Backstabber. W*. Selfish. Get over yourself, be honest, and take responsibility for your actions and the consequences you've earned. You can only get what you give and you give nothing but heartache and misery.
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