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ive done it again

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ive cheated again..with the same married man.. and on the man that i love more than anything. how do you explain having no willpower but still loving him everyday more and more?

Category Betrayal

Submitted 05-16-2007 07:22
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advice from Guest3161744 | 05-25-2007 07:02 | E : 3 | S : 0
You explaing by saying, "You're missing something in your current relationship." I've been sleeping with the same married man for almost 15 years on and off and my husband has no clue. My husband is the most amazing father and so dedicated to me and I love him - it's just on a different plane. I crave that physical release I only get from having this affair. I feel your pain.

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advice from Guest3151240 | 05-21-2007 14:55 | E : 1 | S : 0
Love and desire are not exclusive, regardless of what behavior is accepted and expected by society. Try your best not to hurt anyone and enjoy your life as much as you can. Don't feel guilty, it may even be that your love for your man is enhanced by this adventure!
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advice from Guest2289081 | 06-10-2007 01:54 | E : 0 | S : 0
i have been with my boyfriend for 4 years and he says he loves me dearly, but I am always attracted to someone else the chemestry always seems ten times better with them, however I can't let him go, he doesn't deserve to be dragged along, but no one will ever love me like he does. I'm so glad there are others like me
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advice from Guest825225 | 08-29-2007 02:06 | E : 0 | S : 0
i hope it's not my husband. just ask yourself why doesn't he leave his wife for you? that should tell you something.
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advice from Guest1160014 | 10-15-2007 22:41 | E : 0 | S : 0
I feel your pain also. Sadly my 'other man' isn't married, and I think he loves me. But I'm so afraid to drag him down with me.

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advice from Guest1799334 | 12-17-2007 13:55 | E : 0 | S : 0
I feel your pain too, and am in a similar boat. My husband is the nicest man ever, but I'm in love with another married man. I "love" him in a way, but not in the way I love "my soulmate." My husband found out, I apologized, we've been in counseling, but to this day, if he ever comes to town, I run to him like a bee to honey. I am contemplating getting a full time and leaving, or having him leave, but it would devastate my young children. I wish I could make myself love my husband, but we just don't click. It stinks.
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advice from Guest1924837 | 12-29-2007 23:08 | E : 0 | S : 0
I am in the same boat as many of you. I have been in love with someone other than my husband for 18 years. My husband is a great Dad and I couldn't imagine my life without him, but I don't want to be without this other person. Why are ther so many of us like this?
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advice from Guest2308646 | 02-10-2008 10:14 | E : 0 | S : 0
I struggle everyday with the same thing.
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advice from Guest2739560 | 03-23-2008 22:19 | E : 0 | S : 0
If you really love him you need to be honest with him. Finding out later makes it worse (and "it was over three years ago" hurts much more than it helps when telling your man... so says my experience).
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advice from Guest3158161 | 05-25-2007 12:25 | E : 0 | S : 1
I go through this all the time.... am married but in love with a married man. It's heart breaking but I have no willpoker to just saya no

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