Lack of Sex...
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I love my boyfriend but he doesn't want to have sex as much as I do. He's perfect in every other way. I told him it wasn't a big deal but I'm starting to wonder if it is...
Category Romance
Submitted 06-19-2007 12:21
Visited 960 times. 95.00 Compelling Rating (rated 2 times)
advice from Guest850624 | 09-02-2007 05:11 | E : 1 | S : 0
i feel for you hun. i'm gong through the same thing with my boyfriend. he used to want it all the time, now i can't keep him from falling asleep in the first five minutes when he comes to bed. I like to think it's because they're comfortable, not feeling the need to impress us as much as they did in the beginning. but i dunno. only way to go about this is to talk to him. there really is no other way
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advice from Guest3350303 | 07-09-2007 16:33 | E : 0 | S : 0
Listen, Even if it is not a big deal to you now, it will be in the future, because after a while, it will feel like he is rejecting "YOU" and not just the sex, it will bring your self esteem down, and you will start to wonder what is wrong with you, it is okay to have a high sex drive, but it would be better to find someone that can match you in that area. Alot of people will tell you sex isn't that important, but it is, its the time in your day to days that you get to spend intimately with your partner therefore it needs to be enjoyable to both parties. Your best bet is to talk to him about it first, try to see if he has any fantasies you can play out for him, or what and when he finds most enjoyable. Good Luck!
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advice from Guest825225 | 08-29-2007 02:18 | E : 0 | S : 0
i have been/am there. i dont know what to do either. other guys find me sexy and i dont know how much longer i can stay with my husband.
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advice from Guest1219470 | 10-24-2007 03:13 | E : 0 | S : 0
I am like you. When my husband tells me no, I wait until he falls asleep and give him a BJ. He doesn't tend to tell me no then. ;) And he never complains. Works for me, and I still feel like he wants me when I do that.
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advice from Guest1246341 | 10-25-2007 16:16 | E : 0 | S : 0
its not you. Talk to him about it
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