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i think im everything i hate. i have really bad commitment issues. im adopted my real mom was a drug and alcohol addict and my dad..who knows. i was adopted at birth, i got molested by my cousin beat my my adopted dad. so then my adoptive parents got divorced. then i got rapped..how do i learn to trust men?
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advice from Guest1534098 | 11-23-2007 08:48 | E : 0 | S : 0
thats a hard one , in all honesty 75% of us are bad (us being men) but theres that little 25% that will always be there to help , they will get you on your feet , and oddly enough they are the ones that girls always treat like crap and throw away for a guy who will hit her or just be mean , but anyway you just need to talk to one of those 25% men , i would like to say that im one but i have done bad things and i doubt myself , im nice to girls and all but i feel i have done a bad thing... twice , i think i will go write about it
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advice from Guest1730495 | 12-11-2007 01:47 | E : 0 | S : 0
Wow well i understand you on being molested and and having trust issues because i've been through it also. It's hard for men to understand when they haven't been through it. I'm in love with my man but it's still hard for me to trust him. Not that he's doing anything but because of what my cousin did to me it's hard. You need to go talk to someone professionally who can help you mentally. Because they are trained on this kind of thing. And prayer helps. Good luck
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