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Life ruiner, love of my life.

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My girlfriend has ruined my life. She's the reason I dropped out of school, moved hours away from home and lost my parent's trust. She says she loves me but also says she's been having thoughts of cheating on me. She has a horrible record: She's never been with someone without cheating. We first fell in love while she was with her last girlfriend. She says she won't cheat but it's so hard to believe when she has girls over to "cuddle" and nothing else. I want to go home and start over again. I love her so much and I know that if I left I would never talk to her again. I also can't move back because I've gotten this far and want everyone to know I can succeed. She and I have talked about being together forever, even though I don't think it could happen. Also, my parents have no idea that I like other girls, especially my roommate. I have no idea what to do. It's driven me into a horrible depression. There is so much more I could say but it's so hard to even think of. She's broken my heart once before. I don't want to give up but I don't want to be hurt anymore...
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Submitted 02-17-2007 19:10
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advice from Guest821011 | 02-27-2007 05:01 | E : 2 | S : 0
She'll probably change, but it doesn't sound like she's ready and it might be years - by then there could be too much damage. I would go home and start again.
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advice from Guest2441999 | 02-27-2007 21:39 | E : 2 | S : 0
Aww, sweetie.
Sometimes its better to let go. If you dont trust her..you have no chance.
Sorry. :[

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advice from Guest2478761 | 03-04-2007 02:04 | E : 0 | S : 0
UM, I'm guessing you're young. LEAVE, NOW. This is a very unhealthy situation and you're fooling yourself if you think otherwise. She TOLD you she's thinking of cheating, which right there should have been your ticket out the door. Why put yourself through all of this when you know it will never work out anyway? Find someone who is nuts about you and vice versa. Don't we all deserve that?
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