like me not

i chatted with a boy at my school, who just started joking, sayin i think hes sexy and other stuff... then we would talk about the girl he liked, and then, one day, we chatted for hours, and he said i was pretty.. nobody had said that to me before, so i felt really flattered, but then again.. i didnt thik i liked him like that, and i ignored him at shcool.. now, he holds hands with some other girl, and hardly ever talks to me.. i feel dope cuz we used to always talk and now like we dont... i soo miss him as a friend, but what sucks the most is that now i go back and think about the past and i realize he never liked me at all... yea just friend thing.. sucks, and i miss thinking he liked me... now that i know better,. stupid secret.. but it is MY secret, even though it may not sound like one.
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advice from Guest2112639 | 02-25-2008 03:30 | E : 0 | S : 0
I know it doesn't mean much, coming from an anonymous face - but girl, you will find that there are lots of boys that play the flirting game with all the girls he can. You are going to find everything good you found in this guy, in another guy down the road. This other guy is actually going to be a lot BETTER than this first one. There's a lot coming, I promise. Just don't give yourself away. Wait for the guy that waits for you.
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advice from Guest2454122 | 02-25-2008 13:32 | E : 0 | S : 0
We often miss the forest because we can't look past the trees in front of us. Yeah, he liked you but he was afraid to move forward in case he was wrong about your feelings and didn't want to get rejected. You need to learn that women and men communicate in very different ways. Girls will often talk about giving guys all the clues, signs, and code-words. Men, don't like these games - the next time you want a man to know you like him - wait till you're in a private place and give him a simple kiss then say, I'm here if you want to be more than friends, but don't make me wait too long before telling me how you really feel. That way, there's no mystery just get it out and in the open. Good Luck!
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advice from Guest1789369 | 03-01-2008 15:32 | E : 0 | S : 0
You need to stop attempting to make or keep friends by being sexy/sleazy and telling others they are sexy. You sound very young but try being normal platonic friends with people and you wont ruin friendships and make a fool of yourself. You are making sleazy comments and turning people off. Be friends first, then become more if you really like each other and know each other for awhile but theres no reason to talk sleazy; its a real turn off and makes you sound like a desperate try hard.
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