lost that feeling

i have been with my boyfriend for 4 years and 6 months ago he purposed. well i found out that a year ago while we were broke up he had sex with a girl i hate. now the thought of marrying him disgust me. but the thought of not being with him kills me. im so confused
Category Romance

advice from Guest3211492 | 06-07-2007 20:41 | E : 0 | S : 0
forgiveness?
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advice from Guest3213498 | 06-08-2007 11:55 | E : 0 | S : 0
You were broken up. Please don't judge the man. If he is a good guy, do what you can to forgive and forget. The worst thing in life is that second chances are so rare. If the thought of not being with him kills you, then take this problem you are having as a gift of commitment. If you could get over this problem, he is yours forever.

For the sake of second chances... give him one. Because I never get them...
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advice from Guest3313146 | 07-02-2007 00:15 | E : 0 | S : 0
You were broken up. IN the end, that's why people break up, so see if they should be with other people. He found out he should be with you. He didnt' cheat on you. He loves YOU. Don't focus on this one stupid thing and miss the happiness in your life.
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