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She told me she thought she was pregnant so that I would leave my girlfriend. I offered to help her remain a full-time college student, she said she wouldn't do that. Meanwhile I knew that her casual boyfriend had asked her to marry him and she wasn't sleeping with him but may have slept with a visiting ex. I told her not to worry since I had had a vasectomy. After that night I never hooked up with her again. Soon after she quickly married the boyfriend and they had a child a few months later. Is it his, is it the ex, is it mine. I may never know now.
Category Romance

Submitted 02-22-2007 11:19
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advice from Guest2543176 | 03-11-2007 13:37 | E : 1 | S : 0
did you have a vasectomy?
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advice from Guest2552715 | 03-12-2007 14:00 | E : 0 | S : 0
Reminds me of the love triangles and circles surrounding military bases and the calico kids. So long as you were all adults, I don't see the harm in what you did, you initially offered to help her and it sounds as though she was kinda trampy.
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advice from Guest2775806 | 04-05-2007 14:53 | E : 0 | S : 0
You're not alone, some girls think a pregnancy (real or fake) can make or save a relationship. My neighbor just married his wife after a few years dating cause she 'forgot her pills' while on a holiday and got preggers. As for me, yeah I had a girl try to tell me she was late and usually ran like a clock so I said, 'really, and I'm the only one you're sleeping with? well then I guess we'll need a DNA test and a good lawyer to sue the NAVY vasectomy doctor.' All of sudden, she had 'spotting' a few days later - I wasn't too happy with her so I broke up with her while she was in mid gulp and swallow. Crass, maybe but keep in mind she was insisting we get married asap to save face with her family. C'ya!
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advice from Guest2809288 | 04-09-2007 13:16 | E : 0 | S : 0
I used to travel all the time, for work. I got the dreaded call one night and sweated out the time till she gave birth and we tested. She kept asking for money and I refused until the tests came back. The tests came back and I was in the clear. The experience changed my life and I am much more careful now.

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advice from Guest2932691 | 04-20-2007 09:35 | E : 0 | S : 0
Casual dating can lead to lifelong reminders. Be smart, stay safe, remain faithful. You should have never been double-dipping in the first place. You deserve to be punished!

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advice from Guest3105234 | 05-11-2007 10:35 | E : 0 | S : 0
Too many girls go to college to earn them MRS, my exCoach said he proposed to his wife by saying 'you're what!' It happens, she deserves to live in anguish and wonder who her baby's daddy is. Sounds like she lucked out and it looks more like her than any of the potential daddies.

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