Love with 2 or 3

I'm in love with 2 men, one I'm married to, but i feel like he's not physically attracted to me, and we don't have sex anymore, and if we do I don't 'finish' , and the other, well the other I love, and he turns me on, and I find myself dreaming of him. and Now my ex is in the picture and I miss him, so i cling. I hate that I feel this way any advice
Category Dirty Little Secret

advice from Guest1984548 | 01-06-2008 22:33 | E : 1 | S : 0
Sounds like you neeed to be single again. I suggest you get a divorce, and just date/meet people. Unless you have kids, in that case you're simply stuck until your kids move out.
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advice from Guest1931653 | 12-30-2007 20:23 | E : 0 | S : 0
the question is, who do you want to fight for? your husband? your ex? or this other man? you need to follow your heart and fight for what feels right.
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advice from Guest1933320 | 12-31-2007 00:54 | E : 0 | S : 0
follow your heart.
live your life the way you believe you should ultimately choose to.
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advice from Guest1934009 | 12-31-2007 03:19 | E : 0 | S : 0
You married your husband for a reason. Don't worry something good over something as silly as a crush. Tell him that you need to improve your sex life and exactly how you feel because he obviously has something that the other guys don't have for you, emotionally.
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advice from Guest1372870 | 01-02-2008 15:22 | E : 0 | S : 0
Your not the only one !!!!!!!!!
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advice from Guest1956643 | 01-03-2008 00:21 | E : 0 | S : 0
Talk to the one you Love.
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advice from Guest1969202 | 01-04-2008 14:35 | E : 0 | S : 0
I have the same probelm too. I feel that I can't get enough of my lover i miss him when i can't see him. I find myself always thinking about him. I tried to end the affair but I always find myself going back
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