My dad Didnt Want me
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i asked my father if i could move back in with him.I thought it was a mistake to move with my mother....So when i visited his house and came home 30 minutes late......He used that as an excuse and told my mother to take me with her because i'm a lier.....He never wanted me and because i am his daughter it brakes my heart to know that if my own father doesn'tove me How can i expect a stranger to fall in love and marry me.If no one can love me theres no reason to try
Category Didn't Want To Know - But I Do
Submitted 10-21-2007 02:25
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advice from Guest3271948 | 02-01-2008 09:17 | E : 2 | S : 0
Everyone falls on hard times, even our parents. Unfortunately they rarely realise the effect their words and actions have on us. Your father is not representative of all of the humans on earth. I'm sure man people do love you, and there will be many more in the future. The hurt will pass. It will just take time.
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advice from Guest1247286 | 11-06-2007 00:49 | E : 0 | S : 0
I'm so sorry to hear this.
Families have their hardtimes...i've been there, we've all been there. There will always be times down the road where something really devastating will happen, and you'll have no one to turn to...but yourself.
honey, hold your head up strong, and take this as advice;
love who you have around you. be a better parent than the one that you were given.
show them you can be better.
Use this to make you stronger, not suffer.
-best of wishes to you...
it'll all become easier.
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advice from Guest1345299 | 11-06-2007 15:12 | E : 0 | S : 0
i wont say that i understand, my mother left. She said i was worthless and her life would be better off without me. It is a horrible feeling to have a parent abandon you, i wish i could say there is a magic way to make yourself forget or feel better. the only advice i can give is focus on the people in your life that are there (friends and family). There are people out there who want you around, and one day you will meet a stranger who can't live without you. Just because one person doesn't want you around, doesn't mean that everyone doesn't want you. i hope this helped, or at least lets you know you aren't alone.
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advice from Guest1357332 | 11-07-2007 14:28 | E : 0 | S : 0
i dont understand how a father cannot love his child. I understand however that even if he does he might have acted selfishly in this situation. Not everyone is the same. Not everyone is like your dad. If you give up and dont try at all you will never know how wonderful love can be, a love that will heal old wounds. Love is worth the risk of getting hurt.
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advice from Guest1365133 | 11-08-2007 02:55 | E : 0 | S : 0
that is so sad. I hope things get better for you. Maybe he just can't handle being around women expelly teenage girls. Maybe you remind him of your mother.
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advice from Guest2859763 | 04-03-2008 14:56 | E : 0 | S : 0
Don't let yourself believe that! My dad left my mom and I because he didn't want me. But you know what, I woke up one day and realized that if he didn't want me that wasn't my fault, he was selfish. And it sounds like your dad is being selfish in this case. Someone will absolutely love you exactly the way you are and don't ever doubt it! If you had a close friend whose dad didn't want her would that make you love them any less? Or if you had a boyfriend you were in love and the same situation happened to him. Would you decide you couldn't love him if his dad hadn't loved him? No way. You deserve and should look for someone who will love you as much as you love them. They are out there!
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advice from Guest2995226 | 04-18-2008 18:44 | E : 0 | S : 0
honey.
maybe your father just has wild crazy... visits with women and doesnt want you around for that?
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advice from Guest1357123 | 11-07-2007 14:40 | E : 0 | S : 3
Dont be like that!
Be happy!
Dont u love your mum?
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