my fathers love
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my father molested me when i was 4 years old and continued until he died from cancer when i was 12. i let him do this to me because he told me he loved me and he was the only person who ever loved me when i was a child
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Submitted 09-22-2007 03:43
Visited 1713 times. 98.00 Compelling Rating (rated 5 times) 96.00 Sincerity Rating (rated 5 times)
advice from Guest2128031 | 01-20-2008 19:49 | E : 4 | S : 1
Your father did not love you. No one who loves you does something that heinous could ever love you. But there are people in your life that truly love you. Move on from the past. Forgive your father, but do not forget what he did. It was wrong, but forgive him and let his soul move on to the next life.
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advice from Guest2156524 | 01-23-2008 21:41 | E : 2 | S : 1
aww, thats so sad. but there is always one person who will love you, GOD. dont be afraid to tell him in your prayers.
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advice from Guest2367605 | 02-17-2008 06:28 | E : 1 | S : 0
don't let it kill you. you'll just be a victim of his longer if you let that happen.
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advice from Guest2381411 | 02-18-2008 21:48 | E : 1 | S : 0
i was 6.
16 now.
he's still here tough
sometimes it's the farthest thing from my mind and i'm ok
other times, it's hard to look him in the eye
do you love ur dad still?
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advice from Guest2305303 | 02-10-2008 22:51 | E : 0 | S : 0
I agree, you should forgive your father but not to do his soul any favors. The damnation he may feel, is deserved, he did it to himself. You should forgive so that your spirit isn't the one who's bound to the past and destined to continue the pain learned there by repeating it in relationships that are just as damaging. Forgive so that you're able to transition from being trapped as a victim to gaining strength and thriving as a survivor. Peace at last, you do deserve.
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advice from Guest2321448 | 02-11-2008 19:12 | E : 0 | S : 0
:(
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advice from Guest2411372 | 02-20-2008 21:46 | E : 0 | S : 0
i belive your defintion of love is wrong and misunderstood.molesting has nothing to do with love.its all sin.youre father knew what he was doing is wrong and yet he continue until his death.
i advice you to focus on the people you love and who love you in your life.
but be a better person.
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advice from Guest2185955 | 01-27-2008 07:41 | E : 1 | S : 21
lawl thats hilarious
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