My girlfriend

This is not how she normally is!!!! About 2 weeks ago my girlfriend started acting odd, one day she said she was going out on the town with her friends. She spent hours getting ready, wearing the skimpiest shorts ive seen :-S I waited up to make sure she got home safely, 3.30 AM the police knock on the door, saying that she was ok but she was drunk and a bit hysterical as she had lost her bag in a club. They said she had given them false information, but that if i would let her just go to bed they wouldn't have to arrest her. I obviously said yes, they then had to drag her to the door, while she was shouting "no he's gonna go mad, hes gonna go mad" then they told her if she didnt go in she would be arrested. She told them that she would rather be in a cell! so they took her. Bearing in mind that i am joining the Police Force, this was unbelievable. The next day when they let her out she came back and proceeded to tell me what had happened. She said she was in a club and went to the toilet, as she was finishing someone pulled her out and threw her out of the club leaving her bag behind. She went to the front of the club where the bouncers said your not allowed back in, you shouldnt have been sucking people off in the toilets. She addamently denied doing anything of course. She then went over to two policemen and asked if they could help, they then took her to the police car, and said they couldnt do anything about it and were taking her home. She told me that when they took her from my house they took her to the hospital for her blood sugar checking. Which i thought was weird, so i asked my dad a Chief Superintendant if this was normal procedure, he told me they never do that, and that they would only do that if someone had been drinking and driving(she doesnt drive) or if someone had tried hurting themselves. He said it sounds a bit suspicious to me!! 2 days later we had agreed to have a break from each other for a while. Before i left i was evil and looked in her diary :-S it said that saturday night she had been kissing loads of guys and draping around them all night, reading this hurt me so much as the day after that night my girlfriend and i went into town to see if we could get her bag, we called into her friends work (the people she went out with) and one girl in there was looking at me as if to say do you really know what your girlfriend was like last night!!! When we got back i had asked her if she thought her friend was looking at me a bit strange, she said she hadnt noticed!
On Xmas day i called in to see her, the room was a mess, she told me her friends had slept over night after going out. She also said she had been doing cocaine, I really dont know whats happening to her. She has always been troubled mentally, but i never thought she would turn the troubles on to me whom has looked after and helped her over 5 years. I just dont know what to do with my self now, i am back at my mums house again, not knowing what the future holds. I really did love her and i am sure she used to love me, but the way she has hurt me over these past few weeks is irrepairable. I just want to take my mind of her now, i really just want to go out on the town, get drunk and have a laugh with someone. Show her i can live without her and enjoy myself. If only i had a crystal ball to look at my future :-)
Category Disappointed

advice from Guest1751086 | 01-01-2007 23:19 | E : 3 | S : 0
Move on my man. You're the better person in this relationship it sounds like. She's a cheat at best... and you deserve better than that. Life will get better just give it some time. Get your ass out and do something, going to the gym helps me when I'm in a funk. Hard to think to hard about negative stuff when you're sitting under weights straining to get them up just one more time.
ELEVATE THIS ADVICE SINK THIS ADVICE

advice from Guest3020134 | 04-29-2007 03:37 | E : 0 | S : 0
FORGET HER. SHE MUGHT CAUSE YA TROUBLE AND ANYWAY U SOUND LIKE U COULD DO BETTER THAN THAT

ELEVATE THIS ADVICE SINK THIS ADVICE