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My life is a lie

QuickCode : help me stop lying

Im completely inlove with the man of my dreams I wouldnt trade him for the world. He's handsome, sweet, sincere, understanding, and everything I want....................but the problem is that he thinks he knows me better than anyone else. the truth is he doesnt know me at all.
my VOICE is even fake around him
sometimes i pick arguements just to hear him apologise and tell me hes sorry and that he loves me....i feel horribale. everyday i feel like god is going to punish me but i just CANT stop..HOW do i stop?!!?!
Category Betrayal

Submitted 12-29-2006 22:01
Visited 1052 times. 80.00 Compelling Rating (rated 5 times) 74.00 Sincerity Rating (rated 5 times)
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advice from Guest1735463 | 12-31-2006 16:50 | E : 3 | S : 0
so who exactly are you trying to hurt--him or yourself? It sounds to me like your problem is low self-esteem. You've got a wonderful guy in your life and yet you feel compelled to screw up this relationship.

For the record, you are not a liar; you are being honest in your online confession. Now take the next step: talk to him about how you feel and why you feel that way.

Don't worry about God punishing you; you're doing a pretty good job of punishing yourself. Cut yourself some slack and just talk to this guy about why you act this way around him. Good luck!
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advice from Guest1751086 | 01-01-2007 23:39 | E : 1 | S : 0
Be yourself. There is no other answer, your life is a lie and lies never turn out well.
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advice from Guest821011 | 12-29-2006 22:13 | E : 0 | S : 0
Tell him that you don't feel that you are yourself around him and flow from there.
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advice from Guest1718918 | 12-30-2006 09:44 | E : 2 | S : 2
Here is my Advice tell the truth or leave before you wast his life away and he hates you for it.. I know I was the man in the same thing now I have her baby girl full time she was a crappy girl friend and every a crapper mom (what a b*)
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advice from Guest1717867 | 12-30-2006 07:50 | E : 1 | S : 2
stop lying. thats one thing i can't stand is lying.
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advice from Guest1711780 | 12-30-2006 17:34 | E : 0 | S : 3
so be yourself. since your fake any ways it shouldnt mater. i think your lookin for an easy way out and have isues getting close to some one. all i gota say is quit faking. i think for every faker needs shot.why is it so hard for you fakers to be yourself? i think its cause you know your shallow and have selfimage problems and been keeping up with the jone's to long. find some individuality.
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