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I have genital herpes. And my significant other has no idea. And we just did it again last night. I just told him he must be allergic to my lipstick. I have no idea how to tell him.
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Submitted 04-20-2007 11:48
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advice from Guest3653075 | 08-19-2007 17:12 | E : 2 | S : 0
its okay, everyone makes mistakes- no use in beating yourself up over it now - but what i would do is tell him you think you have an infection of sorts, go to the clinic, and say you just found out you had them now. itll soften the blow if he doesnt think youve been hiding it. then both of you- start taking that drug that helps keep breakouts away
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advice from Guest3120644 | 05-14-2007 00:28 | E : 1 | S : 0
You have to tell him now. If you really love him, you'll want him to be healthy

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advice from Guest2993605 | 05-12-2007 04:07 | E : 0 | S : 0
uhm maybe you should have told him before you gave it to him so he could have had a chance in the matter. tell him asap so he knows!

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advice from Guest3182983 | 05-30-2007 10:39 | E : 1 | S : 1
you must really hate this person to have not shared this urgent news.
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advice from Guest2336497 | 02-13-2008 13:47 | E : 0 | S : 0
Tell him that you have been to the doctor and have been diagnoses with herpes. Then, tell him he should definately go to the doctor himself. He'll be pissed at you -- but you already know you deserve his anger. If this relationship does end, please be more considerate to your next boyfriend.
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advice from Guest3134396 | 05-17-2007 10:01 | E : 0 | S : 1
Silly person. There is no cure for genital herpes.
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advice from Guest2981226 | 05-17-2007 15:51 | E : 0 | S : 1
wow, thats all i can say

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advice from Guest838689 | 08-31-2007 05:07 | E : 0 | S : 1
You just gave him herpes for the rest of his life. How could you do that to someone? I'm sorry, but that is absolutely disgraceful. I don't look down upon people with STDs or anything, but knowingly transmitting one to someone you supposedly care about is horrible.
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advice from Guest837090 | 09-01-2007 01:15 | E : 0 | S : 1
that sucks.
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advice from Guest3180829 | 05-29-2007 18:32 | E : 0 | S : 2
I cannot believe you knew you had herpes and didn't tell the person you were sleeping with. That's just as bad as those people a few years ago who had HIV and were putting needles in movie seats that they had stabbed themselves with. Ugh! I just find it disgusting that another human being could be so selfish and stupid.
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