My Mother didnt believe me

I was raped by my mothers first husband over and over again from ages 6 to 10. He ruined my life and my mother didn't believe me when I told her. My mother betrayed me the day she didn't believe and refused to help me and divorce him. He went into my room at night and closed the door my mom was always at work at night. So he came at night. I tried to go over my friends house a lot but he would refuse to let me go. He ruined my life and I will never be that innocent girl I was. Now I am 15 going on 16 and I hate being in relationships I am always afraid of guys because of what has happened to me. I don't know what to do. My mom still won't believe me. Please try to tell me what to do. How can I trust guys for all of the one I have met are all pigs and a few foul words. Well I got to go.
Category Betrayal

advice from Guest2963112 | 04-29-2007 02:57 | E : 7 | S : 1
I know what its like to not be belived. My mother didn't belive me when I told her my stepfather touched me as a child.

There is nothing you can do to help her beleive you. I am sorry.

You cannot change how other people act, only how you react. There is alot of evil out in the world and alot of pain.

You need to get professional help, therapy of some sort, and the only way you will get it is if you threaten your mother with something she cannot refuse.

Remember that for every bad deed in the world there is a good one. There are good men out there, I found one. But in order to find them, you must first get rid of the hate and anger in your heart. Only then will you be truly happy.

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advice from Guest2724116 | 04-04-2007 05:22 | E : 5 | S : 3
Threaten her. Threaten her that if she doesn't get the sense to belive you that you will leave or report her husband. Something she just cannot say no to.
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advice from Guest2867799 | 04-14-2007 23:53 | E : 3 | S : 1
Its never too late to tell your mother she is a selfish b!tch, and bounce outta that house. Find a friend whose parents will let you stay with them. Your mother obviously has no idea how to protect her own, and you've done nothing wrong kid. Don't let this dictate the rest of your life. Just get yourself away from that woman.

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advice from Guest2796709 | 04-08-2007 01:20 | E : 1 | S : 1
I wish I could say something nice about your mother but it just seems to me that she is in her own little world or denial. If you had evidence and showed her I dont even know if she would believe you. Just ignore her and deal with it yourself. You still has counselors I'm sure. If not go talk to someone your do trust. A best friends mother someone.
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advice from Guest2690119 | 03-27-2007 22:58 | E : 3 | S : 5
Leave. Leave and never talk to your mother again. Get therepy and find things you love to do and do them, f___ her.... honestly
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