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All the people I relied on for a shoulder to cry on and tell everything are now dead and now people come to me for a shoulder to cry on and tell me all of there problems and I cant tell them how I need someone for me not just to be the someone.
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advice from Guest939312 | 09-14-2007 23:58 | E : 1 | S : 0
I know that feeling. But there are so many people out there- you will find more, to lean on, to love with, to live with.
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advice from Guest1259486 | 11-01-2007 05:37 | E : 1 | S : 0
Then you need to go look for somebody, because there is somebody out there who is feeling the complete opposite of you. They want somebody to cry on their shoulder.

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advice from Guest851888 | 09-02-2007 11:07 | E : 0 | S : 0
I know how you feel hunny.
Im the one peopl lean on
but when you have your own probems u ned to turn around and just say no i need somone now theyll understand xx
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advice from Guest883654 | 09-06-2007 17:57 | E : 0 | S : 0
Find a shrink. It will help you immensely. Consolidate your feelings.
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advice from Guest883651 | 09-06-2007 18:12 | E : 0 | S : 0
I've started confiding in one of the people who comes to me to talk about her problems, it's helped me a lot.
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advice from Guest996703 | 09-21-2007 23:43 | E : 0 | S : 0
find someone u love and trust and they will be there for u. you ar enot alone. just find who you trust and confide in them
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advice from Guest1322422 | 11-04-2007 03:44 | E : 0 | S : 0
once you lose all the people you can count on you can see if you can count on yourself. that's character
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advice from Guest1357332 | 11-07-2007 14:22 | E : 0 | S : 0
Its hard for those that are the strong shoulders of support to crumble. I dont trust people easily if at all so i know the feeling of feeling alone and unsupported. Let someone into your heart and trust them with your burdens is the advice i would give you. You might get hurt but if you dont try you will hurt yourself.

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advice from Guest1358693 | 11-07-2007 16:20 | E : 0 | S : 0
i think that you are going through a common problem i know how you feel, but not all of them are dead. thankfully. but the thing is you need to find yourself someone that you can put your trust into and talk to as well as them talking about their probelms to you, i think that you should talk to one of the people that come to you, that way the trust will build and so will the bond between you. don't worry this will soon pass and i assure you that things will once more be calm. i hope this advice comes to some help to you and i hope all goes well.

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advice from Guest1060015 | 11-19-2007 13:38 | E : 0 | S : 0
That's normal. No need to feel embarraseed. Talk to one of these people, about your problems for a change. Don't feel guilty about them listening.. they're your friends... they'll want to know :)
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