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I'm afraid to have sex because I'm fat. I'm afraid that no one will ever love me just because of the way I look.
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Submitted 05-28-2007 23:04
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advice from Guest3313146 | 07-01-2007 23:04 | E : 3 | S : 0
I'm assuming your a girl, because girls are usually more hung up on these things. Anyways: curves are a sexy thing. Guys (not the shallow ones) think it's lovely to curl up to lovelyt soft curves.
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advice from Guest3414380 | 07-19-2007 17:58 | E : 3 | S : 0
I feel the same way and I am dealing with it by eating healthy and working out. When I feel good about myself I will feel better about having sex. I, and it seems you, need to love yourself before you let someone love you. If it bothers you, do something about it. It sucks and it's hard and it hurts sometimes and it's annoying but you get used to it and I am losing weight. It's nice to fit into smaller jeans. I still have a while to go to love myself but I'm getting there. DON'T take those stupid diet pills, they will mess with your system and you will gain all the weight back after you are done using them. Do it the long way and you will be more proud of yourself. Set a goal.
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advice from Guest2447973 | 06-05-2007 13:15 | E : 2 | S : 0
tbh, im fat as fridge. i havent had sex. but i know a chick that likes me for who i am. not what i look like. dont worry too much about it.
xx
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advice from Guest3528476 | 08-05-2007 00:24 | E : 2 | S : 0
I have always been fat. I hated it. Hated myself. But I stayed true to who I am, and didn't let my poor body shape and image destroy who I was. And it worked out. I found a man that loves me, all 190 pounds of me (I am rather short). So please keep hope. Work on your weight and your attitude and love will find you. I know it sounds ridiculous, but it happened to me. And if I can be loved by a man, anyone can. You are beautiful. Highlight your best features. Big is beautiful!!
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advice from Guest3326872 | 07-04-2007 21:30 | E : 1 | S : 0
you'll find a guy/girl that will love you the way you look and love your body even more then you will ever know...
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advice from Guest1202914 | 10-21-2007 17:12 | E : 1 | S : 0
I think fat people are beautiful and I'm drawn to them. If I see a crowd of people, undoubtedly, it will be the fattest person in the group who I think is the most interesting and who I want to get to know.
Maybe this is because the love of my life is fat and I'm drawn to others like her, or maybe I chose her because I just prefer fat people. Doesn't matter, really. Just know that there is love out there in the world for you. Just be yourself, find your own joy, and love and sex will come.
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advice from Guest1189679 | 10-19-2007 19:41 | E : 0 | S : 0
someone told me once - the only person that loves a stick is a dog.
meaning if a guy loves a girl only because she's skinny, he's not worth it..
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advice from Guest1197853 | 10-20-2007 23:23 | E : 0 | S : 0
same here.
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advice from Guest2993605 | 10-21-2007 19:13 | E : 0 | S : 0
Don't worry about it! Every guy/girl has different tastes. I'm overweight myself.. and when i lost my virginity to my fiance, I made him keep the lights off and we had to stay under the covers. His body is so healthy, he has NO fat and all musce so that made it so much worse. I was SO scared of him seeing how big i really was. Now i strut my stuff around him all I want. He loves my body and loves my curves... he even goes as far as loving my STRETCH MARKS! Everytime a little roll slides out of the bottom of my shirt he pounces me. You'll find the guy that will love your body no matter what.
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advice from Guest837483 | 10-21-2007 22:01 | E : 0 | S : 0
Let me put it this way:
There is nothing, and I mean nothing more comforting than the soft warmth of my girlfriend's belly and thighs.
I think I partly fell in love with her because she is a little big.
And banging her is the greatest ever.
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advice from Guest3199473 | 06-03-2007 19:20 | E : 0 | S : 1
I'm fat too, and i feel the exact same way. I posted a secret about it, look up lonely and I think the title is Overweight... I'm sorry that you feel the way I do :(
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