On The Fence

I'm not sure whether i'm gay or straight. I honestly think i'm both, but i can't stand the thought of being labelled as bisexual. It makes me think of adolescent girls kissing their friends and declaring lesbianism.
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advice from Guest3263393 | 06-20-2007 19:06 | E : 4 | S : 1
Love is love. You don't need to fall under a category....
You are attracted to people you find attractive, regardless of gender etc....
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advice from Guest804559 | 08-27-2007 18:04 | E : 2 | S : 0
Love can not be labeled.
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advice from Guest866320 | 09-04-2007 09:38 | E : 2 | S : 0
im not bi right, but i really do think it's a lovely thing,

i think its an amazing thing because,

people go for love, not whats in between someones legs,

bi is normal =)
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advice from Guest3346598 | 07-08-2007 20:21 | E : 2 | S : 1
I've been with both.. But, I've never labeled myself. I never saw a reason to. Does it really matter? Will the title make you feel any different? I doubt it. Be with whomever you want to be with. The gender of that person shouldn't matter. Do whatever makes you happy.

PS. I love being with women, But, no one makes me feel as safe and as comfortable as my boyfriend.
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advice from Guest896568 | 09-08-2007 08:28 | E : 1 | S : 0
Get a label maker and label yourself something that makes you feel better like dancer, model, student, singer, pilot, softball champ, weightlifter...
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advice from Guest3257225 | 06-19-2007 07:29 | E : 0 | S : 0
hey I'm bi, don't be ashamed, or label it off as stupid little girls. If you like guys and girls whats the problem? It can sure as hell spice up your sex life if nothing else... =)
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advice from Guest3271948 | 06-23-2007 03:54 | E : 0 | S : 0
Have you acted on your desires? do you necessarily have to be labelled anything?
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advice from Guest2805007 | 07-01-2007 06:06 | E : 0 | S : 0
being bisexual is neither an adolescent 'phase' nor fence sitting because you 'can't decide' - you should be proud of who you are and not give in to others prejudices - rather, as a bisexual person you should help fight against it.
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advice from Guest3622178 | 08-16-2007 20:26 | E : 0 | S : 0
Eh. Here's my point of view. I'm a guy mind you. I'm attracted to other guys but it's too weird doing things with other guys...mostly to to mustache hair but whatever. I've dated both bisexuals and lesbians (me being the only guy they've ever dated). In fact I've never had sex with a straight woman. The label bisexual doesn't mean experimentation as much anymore. That's a junior high statement. In high school it's still almost prevalent because of the retarded homophobia that's prevalent to this day. Beyond that it means that you are attracted to both sexes and act on those desires.
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advice from Guest780495 | 08-24-2007 14:45 | E : 0 | S : 0
Im bisexual.

its no big deal.
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advice from Guest851888 | 09-02-2007 11:11 | E : 0 | S : 0
It doesnt matter if your labelled your are who you are.
and those girls r stupid anyway =]
just live your life as you and dont hide it...
good luck xx
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advice from Guest1249576 | 10-27-2007 23:19 | E : 0 | S : 0
there's nothing wrong with being bisexual. it jsut means that you're not confining yourself to only one half of the population ;)

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advice from Guest2636553 | 03-14-2008 09:44 | E : 0 | S : 0
When people ask about my friend's sexual orientation she says "I just love people for who they are" and leaves it at that.
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advice from Guest2570713 | 06-14-2007 13:43 | E : 0 | S : 1
LETS JUST SAY YOUR OPEN TO LOVE AND IT DOESNT MATTER WERE IT COMES FROM GIRL OR GUY..
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advice from Guest3264555 | 06-20-2007 21:29 | E : 0 | S : 1
Which one do you like more. I am a 28 yr old woman. And I find that I like woman more. I'm sorry it took me so long to find out.
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advice from Guest3278037 | 06-24-2007 00:46 | E : 0 | S : 1
lol. i kno wat u mean. i am what ppl would label as "bi" and no im not an adolescent little girl. i get what u r saying. dont label it. if u r one of those ppl who need to label things (i have a friend like that) then just label it as being attracted to both sexes. yes its a more time consuming label but it def doesnt sound adolescent.
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