Raped

My moms friend named [moderated] had an 18 year old son named [moderated]. He was a fat pig that molested and raped me when i was 9 years old. I did not tell my mom because when I was 7 her boyfriend molested me: I told her and she told me she NEVER WANTED TO HEAR ABOUT IT AGAIN. Thanks Mom.. no wonder I dont trust anyone.
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advice from Guest863790 | 09-18-2007 02:50 | E : 3 | S : 1
You should make your mom listen to you now is very likely she was raped as a child also. There are a lot of support groups out ther for victims so please try to find one. "He is a Shield to all those who trust and take refuge in Him. 2 Samuel 22:31" There is hope.
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advice from Guest994839 | 09-21-2007 17:41 | E : 2 | S : 0
It's never too late to get the authorities involved and make them all suffer the consequences of their actions. If you're still a minor you'll need to go to a foster home but that should be safer than the hell your bitch of a mother exposed you to. Good luck and God bless.
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advice from Guest1261326 | 10-28-2007 10:15 | E : 3 | S : 1
she didnt want to know about it because she was torn between two people she cared for. but thats no excuse, she should have never exposed you to that, ever. tell her what happened with this second person, and if she dosent get you any help look for it elsewhere. i dont know how old you are, but you can find all sorts of help. the police have to help, if youre brave enough to ask. be strong hon, you can get through this

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advice from Guest837792 | 08-31-2007 01:17 | E : 1 | S : 0
im sorry.
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advice from Guest2252197 | 02-04-2008 00:31 | E : 1 | S : 0
Shame on her for not listening. She turned a blind eye because if she didnt have to listen, it's kind of like it never happened. I am sorry that you were in that situation as a child, but know that not allpeople are bad. There are still good people out in the world, you just gotta keep the faith. There are support groups out there to help you heal, andmaybe by speaking out, you can help someone else. My prayers are with you and your mother. I hope that one day she will see her mistake and ask for your forgiveness.
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advice from Guest1977331 | 02-08-2008 06:04 | E : 1 | S : 0
You need a psychologist and a police officer. If your mother won't help you, you still have other options. My parents weren't terribly supportive either. You can talk to a school counselor and they will not only help you get through this but can also set up something with the police so you can file a complaint and possibly press charges. Also going to Victim Witness could be very helpful. They can set you up with a counselor or psychologist, find family counseling if your mother is willing, and walk you through the legalities and give you advice on that respect
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advice from Guest2895226 | 04-06-2008 21:59 | E : 0 | S : 0
Oh honey... I'm so sorry. My mum's stepdad molested her when she was young, and her mother didn't believe her. You are not alone.
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advice from Guest1457969 | 11-15-2007 23:28 | E : 0 | S : 1
damn...
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advice from Guest946708 | 12-16-2007 00:19 | E : 0 | S : 1
oh my god....
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