scared sex

im 15 and me and my boyfriend have had sex about 5 times....all without condoms
im so scared hes gonna cum in me, but i just tell him i trust him
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advice from Guest1517862 | 11-26-2007 15:27 | E : 0 | S : 0
If you can't tell him to use a condom, you need to move on. It also sounds like you guys aren't ready to be doing that anyway.
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advice from Guest1560214 | 11-27-2007 10:13 | E : 0 | S : 0
Make him wear a condom! I hope you're on birth control at the very least--though that doesn't protect you from STDs. You can still get pregnant or diseases from "pre-c__" which he might still unload in you even if he pulls out before fully ejaculating.
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advice from Guest898623 | 11-27-2007 10:13 | E : 0 | S : 0
C__ comes out of his penis in very small amounts the entire time you are having sex. May I remind you it takes only ONE SPERM to fertilize an egg cell. Keep on going the way you're going and you can TRUST you're going to end up pregnant.
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advice from Guest1065457 | 11-27-2007 22:04 | E : 0 | S : 0
Whether he comes or not, precum released before ejaculation can get you pregnant, and you are both also risking STIs. Use condoms. If he doesn't like the feeling, experiment with different types, shapes and brands. Also try gel-charging; put a tiny amount of water-based lubricant inside the tip/reservior of the condom (tiny, around half a pea-sized amount) - the feeling of lubrication around him will be more 'natural', and will also aid the heat transfer between you both. If he's still not wanting to use them, perhaps point out that the mildly desensitising effects will help him to last longer for you. If he still won't use a condom... just say no to unsafe penetrative sex.
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advice from Guest1580171 | 11-27-2007 23:46 | E : 0 | S : 0
it's not about trust. it's really about common sense. if you're going to have sex without a condom, prepare to be a mother. That's how it works. Even if your boyfriend does not ejaculate, there is still a small amount of sperm on his penis. Tell him no, unitl he puts a condom on. Be strong and tell him your feelings on this matter!
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advice from Guest1733842 | 12-11-2007 09:15 | E : 0 | S : 0
It is't about trust. He can get you preg w/o c______ in you.
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advice from Guest842310 | 12-27-2007 18:47 | E : 0 | S : 0
Think of sexy ways you can put the condom on him so it can become an incentive to wear it, plus it is a little foreplay for you both with no STD's or children. If he still says no, find a more responsible boyfriend. This one does not respect you enough.

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advice from Guest1983147 | 01-06-2008 02:38 | E : 0 | S : 0
I had sex at 15 too, but I knew enough to use condoms and other forms of birth control. Condoms are fairly cheap and highly effective. Much better to lose a bit of sensation than to gain a fetus.
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advice from Guest2012019 | 01-08-2008 16:57 | E : 0 | S : 0
you're 15. use a condom. i honestly doubt you want a baby right?
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