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I'm afraid to have sex because I dont know what to expect or what I am doing. And if its anything like what I saw in the porno store you took me to then I'm sorry to say I dont want any of it. Besides I cant even bend that way.........
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Submitted 09-04-2007 03:06
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advice from Guest1001339 | 09-22-2007 18:58 | E : 1 | S : 0
don't be afraid. if someone really cares about you, they will be patient with you. and believe me, porn is NOT always realistic!
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advice from Guest1027722 | 09-26-2007 18:39 | E : 1 | S : 0
What you need to understand is that men and women look at sex alot differently generally. To alot of men it's purly just a physical experience, but to alot of women it has alot deeper meaning. Porn destroys that concept.
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advice from Guest1131089 | 10-11-2007 20:24 | E : 1 | S : 0
Don't be afraid
Do it when you feel comfortable
If a guy is really into you he will wait
When you are confident enough to do it ask him to be gentle with you
I was worried about my first time but when the time comes you know it is right and just go with the flow
There is nothing t worry about!
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advice from Guest1291177 | 10-31-2007 03:42 | E : 1 | S : 0
Don't do it if you're afraid. If he's pushing you to, tell him to get lost. It's not worth it ... trust me. I had my first time because my boyfriend pushed me ... it sucked. SO wait until you're comfortable with a guy and you get turned on by him. Oh and porn is often very unrealistic. So my advice is do everything on your terms, it'll feel better :)
Cheers!

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advice from Guest1357680 | 11-07-2007 14:48 | E : 0 | S : 0
I was a virgin until I was 28 years old, I ended up having sex with a girl in college that notched me. I think it's a lot of pressure on both you and the person you'll be with. There's pressure to perform and taking someone virginity is a big repsonsibility, they'll always think my first time was really great or it really sucked do you wanna be the one to go down in history that sucked.

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advice from Guest1197263 | 11-16-2007 21:53 | E : 0 | S : 0
Romance will lead you into a warm and exciting world. The right person will make you feel all warm inside and you'll just let it come naturally. Don't sweat it. Everyone has sex differently in thier own way anyways. Porno is not romantic at all!
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advice from Guest3285745 | 11-17-2007 03:07 | E : 0 | S : 0
lol. You'll know what to do when you're with the right person and it's the right time.
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advice from Guest1484163 | 11-18-2007 05:57 | E : 0 | S : 0
i was scared too and no its not exactly the best time the first time, make sure you are ready though because i wasnt and i regret that
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advice from Guest1488181 | 11-18-2007 15:13 | E : 0 | S : 0
i'm afraid too.. sooooo afraid... i pity my bf really .. sigh ...
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