sex

i feel like ive should had sex and im only 17
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advice from Guest2180364 | 01-26-2008 16:01 | E : 1 | S : 0
Hi, there's no need to feel that way. I'm in theh same position as you but I know loads of people our age who haven't had sex yet. I'm waiting for the right guy, he doesn't have to be my future husband or anything that serious but I want it to mean something. As you can only lose it once I want it to be something special, not a drunken mistake
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advice from Guest1778152 | 01-28-2008 17:00 | E : 0 | S : 0
Hey, I'm 19 and virgin, so I know what you mean. I agree with the other person who gave advice: it should mean something, as it will (or should) always a special place in your heart.
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advice from Guest2198462 | 01-28-2008 19:36 | E : 0 | S : 0
I was 22 before I ever had sex. And I am glad that I waited. Don't throw that first experience away just because you THINK it should have happened by now. Save yourself. The only reason you are thinking that is because everyone else is, right? What about what you think? Look at your own feelings and ignore the outside pressure.
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advice from Guest2199442 | 01-28-2008 22:11 | E : 0 | S : 0
This isn't exactly a rare feeling. I'm 16, and the only reason I haven't is because I was too shy to take up on the half-dozen offers I've gotten. Thankfully I waited. It's better to wait, but what you feel is normal. Don't worry about it, but don't let it control you.
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advice from Guest2222087 | 01-31-2008 07:42 | E : 0 | S : 0
There is power in Virginity. Take your time, there is no date stamped to your bottom, and you will not expire. I wish I could have said the same, O' do I wish that. Sometimes people don't have a choice. You do, honor that and yourself, as you have for the first 17yrs of your life. Hold your head high and don't worry. I admire anyone who chooses to wait, with the pressures of today's society!
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advice from Guest2235839 | 02-01-2008 23:08 | E : 0 | S : 0
im 17 and i feel like the same as you sometimes. but i think i still should wait because i know i'm not ready yet and losing my virginity would be a regret if i lose it and im not ready yet. its worth the wait, i dont want to give it to some jerk who will later on cheat on me and dump me.
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advice from Guest2231577 | 02-03-2008 19:16 | E : 0 | S : 0
its okay if it makes you feel any better, im 17...ive had sex and i totally regret it. I wish i was in the same position as you, instead of my own.
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advice from Guest2251776 | 02-03-2008 23:44 | E : 0 | S : 0
same here. ur not alone
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advice from Guest2257538 | 02-04-2008 16:10 | E : 0 | S : 0
I agree with every1s comments, u should definately wait, im 17 and the first time i had sex is the only thing i reget in my whole life, the guy was only using me for it,even though we were going out and he told me he loved me and it was in some dark,dirty clubhouse at a pitch, u wil kno urself when the time is rite, but never rush into it, u will kno wen u meet him/her.. xx
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advice from Guest2241934 | 02-06-2008 14:05 | E : 0 | S : 0
well if ur mentally ready go for it cos ur ready
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advice from Guest2319469 | 02-27-2008 15:08 | E : 0 | S : 0
im 17 and have only just had sex for the first time with my boyfriend! i am so so so glad i waited for a guy that respects me and didnt just have a drunken fumble!
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advice from Guest2232340 | 02-03-2008 11:09 | E : 0 | S : 1
it's going to be rubbish anyway, don't sweat it.
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