Shame

I love a boy who's 18, and I'm 21. I want to give him everything I have--which still includes my virginity. But I'm humiliated to think that it might change his opinion of me that I'm this old and still haven't had sex.
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advice from Guest1947629 | 01-01-2008 21:18 | E : 3 | S : 0
If he can't accept that, he's not the one for you.
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advice from Guest1867982 | 01-01-2008 11:57 | E : 2 | S : 0
I'm 22, a virgin, and I have a thing for a guy who just turned 20. I just found out he's also a virgin and greatly respects me for waiting this long instead of giving it up to another guy. my last boyfriend was 24 and by far not a virgin but he also respected the fact that i'm holding out. if it changes his opinion at all maybe it will be for the better. either way, if he cares about you he should respect you no matter what.
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advice from Guest1964029 | 01-03-2008 22:33 | E : 1 | S : 0
oh its all good !! trust me for a girl the best thing u can tell a guy is your a virgion. but i thing u should wait. make sure he really loves u and not just want u for sex
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advice from Guest1941542 | 01-01-2008 01:04 | E : 0 | S : 0
listen take it from me im a guy and if he loves you and you know it then he wont care becouse im sure hes not in it for sex unless he already told you he is and when your ready you'lle know.
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advice from Guest3285745 | 01-01-2008 13:40 | E : 0 | S : 0
Ok he'd be nuts! You can only give your virginity to one person. That's a big deal. He should love that you saved that and have decided to give it to him
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advice from Guest3408001 | 01-01-2008 14:43 | E : 0 | S : 0
if this guy feels the same way that you do, then it shouldn't matter that your still a virgin and if he does change his opinion of you then he really doesn't deserve you!!!
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advice from Guest1947712 | 01-01-2008 21:38 | E : 0 | S : 0
HUN IT IS FINE IF HE DISLIKES YOU BCAUSE OF THAT HE DONT THNK MUCH ABOUT YOU....IM 19 AND I JUT LOST MINE AND IT WAS NOT EASY.... TAKE YOUR TIME
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advice from Guest1293695 | 01-04-2008 06:02 | E : 0 | S : 0
no way! in fact it wil make him want u more. I shows u are not cheap and have waited for the right person.
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advice from Guest1969258 | 01-04-2008 14:35 | E : 0 | S : 0
Don't do it - you've held onto it this long just let the relationship develop naturally and don't force the issue. If he's the right guy then he can wait for the right time. A lot of people were much older than you their first time and can look back on thier lives with a lot less regret than some of their free spirited friends.
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advice from Guest1969248 | 01-04-2008 14:36 | E : 0 | S : 0
If he changes his opinion of you, hes not worth your love. Do you know his sexual background? He might also be a virgin and perhaps be nervous about being with a woman who is a few years older. He might ahve the same fears as you.
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advice from Guest1885752 | 01-04-2008 20:06 | E : 0 | S : 0
nothing wrong with that, guy always enjoy be the frist. i gave my virginity to my boyfriend he was 17 and i was 22. now 8 years later we are married with 1 son we are verry happy.
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advice from Guest1271813 | 01-11-2008 11:49 | E : 0 | S : 0
You should be proud of the fact that your still a virgin its so hard to keep it nowadays i lost my virginity at 16 and cant even remember it i was that drunk, dont give it away just because you think your too old give it to someone who loves you enough to realise how special they are.
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advice from Guest3516269 | 01-04-2008 06:49 | E : 0 | S : 1
go 4 it
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