Shes crazy but I love her

I been seeing this girl for 4 months. I thought she was perfect. Then her other side came out where she is always depress and always takes it out on me. She has threaten to leave me many times and I took her on it many times but then she apoligizes and comes back. I really do love her but it is hard for me to see marriage in the future with her if she is gonna be all depress and psycho on me. What do you think I should do? I don't believen casual dating, I believen falling in love and getting married.
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advice from Guest958585 | 09-17-2007 11:24 | E : 0 | S : 0
I used to do that, but I was lucky enough to have a wonderful bf who recognized my need for help, and was there for me. we've been together 4 years, and we used to have COUNTLESS break-ups and even more make-us. With me finding stability in life our love found more stability... if you love her, be there for her, and talk about everything. show her that you're her confidante and partner..I will always be grateful to my boyfriend for all he has done for me, no matter what happens between us.
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advice from Guest950420 | 09-17-2007 11:32 | E : 0 | S : 0
She prob just has issues she needs to work on but if you cant be more understanding and less judgemental then do her a fav and move on. You shouldent call some one your supose to love mentil or psyco. Thats verbal abuse relashionship probs are never one sided. I'm sure your not the golden boy on a high pedistal eather get over your self. Your def not ready to marry date alot 1st then you will see crazy people!!
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advice from Guest940891 | 09-18-2007 01:10 | E : 0 | S : 0
This sounds a whole lot like sumthin I just went through. I know how you feel man, I was the same way. I wanted to marry her and I loved her. But she always had what seemed to me bipolar moods and she could really go crazy over absolutely nothing. She would breakup with me over sumthin as simple as me refusing to drive to the store, buy her a Coke and drive it to her house. Before I ever got the chance to consider marriage, she left me for someone else. My advice is to ask yourself would you give up the most important thing in your life (other than her) up to be with her. For me it was basketball and the answer was no. So even though I loved her, I had to let her go and move on. If your answer is yes, then stay with her and see how it goes. Even though you love her, its equally important that she loves you as well, so if your answer is yes stay with her and find out how SHE feels. Hope the best for you bro.
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advice from Guest949882 | 09-23-2007 05:06 | E : 0 | S : 0
I agree with the other posts- its so wonderful you can recognise the signs, now take her to a psychologist. That's what she needs, even though you love her a lot, you can't fix her, and please don't tell her 'if you love me, just get over your depression' recognise that you aren't qualified but that your love means you will take her to someone qualified who will make her better. Depression is not a choice- please don't think it is.
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