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Shouldn't be happy

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I have been unhappily married for at least 5 years out of 10. Haven't been intimate with him for almost 4. I was unfaithful to him a year ago. Last September I met the most wonderful man on the internet. He has been an incredible emotional support to me for all these months. I am such an emotional wreck and have been unable to meet with him because I feel my past speaks for itself. I have to turn him away and hurt both of us because I can't seem to let go of my past and allow myself to fall in love and be happy.

Category Romance

Submitted 03-19-2007 07:55
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advice from Guest3144649 | 05-19-2007 23:05 | E : 1 | S : 0
first, i think you should try to fix your relationship with your husband, hit to him that you aren't happy. Maybe then he will realize and he will try to fix things too.
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advice from Guest3093034 | 05-07-2007 08:36 | E : 0 | S : 0
If you are unhappy in your current releationship you should end it. You shouldn't have to live miserably.

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advice from Guest3094753 | 05-07-2007 14:54 | E : 0 | S : 0
falling in "love" on the internet hurt me in a big way, the dynamics of a relationship in person are very different, if you want things to work with this new man you will need to meet do so in a public area and remember that online is not the same as in line of sight! ;)

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advice from Guest3106916 | 05-10-2007 14:46 | E : 0 | S : 0
LEAVE. LIFE IS TOO DAMN SHORT TO SPEND IT MISERABLY. AND YOU'LL PROBABLY BE DOING YOU HUSBAND A FAVOR TOO. HE CAN GO FIND HIM SOMEONE WHO LOVES HIM AND WANTS TO BE WITH HIM, SOMEONE WHO WILL WANT TO MAKE LOVE TO HIM. SEX IS AN IMPORTANT ELEMENT IN A RELATIONSHIP, I DON'T CARE WHAT ANYONE SAYS.

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advice from Guest3108428 | 05-16-2007 13:27 | E : 0 | S : 0
I have been in a marriage for a year but been with this person for 7 years and im about to end it for the same reason. You should as well. It wont do either one of you any good if you are unhappy. Take a leap and go with your heart. Make yourself happy!

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