So Sexually Fustrated

I always been a sexual/conservative person. It seem like after my period I get really horny(hate that word). I trying to hold on to my religious belief of abstinence and reputation. But sometime I feel like becoming a whore (safe one). Can any other female relate?
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advice from Guest1984548 | 01-06-2008 22:58 | E : 3 | S : 0
stick to your beliefs, find the right one, marry him, and F___ the S___ out of him.
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advice from Guest1940239 | 12-31-2007 20:50 | E : 2 | S : 0
Yes!

Plus after doubting my religion for awhile I almost gave it up.
But now I am so glad that I didn't.

Long story short, I do believe there is something amazingly valuable about it, if only because the older you get you realize how precious it is.

I don't know how I feel about this, but I would suggest masturbation before losing your virginity to another person. Also check out books that help us deal with temptation.

Finally--if it helps at all I think the way we feel after a period is the way guys feel most of the time. So it gives me more respect for their struggle.

Just stay away from guys you really like at that time of the month :-). And know, you're not alone.

I truly do believe it will be worth it on my marriage night. My sister and brother-in-law saved themselves & they have an awesome sex life.
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advice from Guest2070611 | 01-14-2008 17:09 | E : 1 | S : 0
I've been abstinant for a year and 1/2. My choice because I became someone I hated for a year or more. I've changed back. I'm not religious, I do it for myself and though I miss sex alot I won't until I'm deep in a loving relationship again.
So just hold out to your beliefs and make yourself proud. And as for your religion, just keep that in mind when ever you think those thoughts again. Find ways to just satisfy yourself.
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advice from Guest2150448 | 01-22-2008 23:49 | E : 1 | S : 0
i know that feeling and alot of my friends are the same. When i have my period i get reallyhorny, but coz im on the pill and sometimes i keep taking it so i dont have a period i still get extremly horny! Dont worry i think this is normal!
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advice from Guest955536 | 12-31-2007 13:02 | E : 0 | S : 0
A year ago I could relate.
Not too long ago I lost my virtue when falling blind in a fast-paced relationship. After that relationship ended, I did stupid things to make myself feel less hurt.

Word spreads quickly and it truly changes your reputation.
People used to call me "prude" (I used to hate that term) and now they call me a "slut" (and look at me with shame).

Temptation is hard to resist. More power to you if you can stick to your promises.
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advice from Guest1799775 | 12-31-2007 15:14 | E : 0 | S : 0
I know how you feel! I don't have the religious belief. But I don't feel ready to do it, because I'm not in love, well, I am, but he's gay and we broke up about 7 months ago. I get really horny just before/at the begining of my period. If you don't do it already, masturbating sometimes helps. Alot of people do it, but don't admit to it, and you really learn about your body and what you like and don't like. And, you don't have to worry about the risks, or losing your virginity.
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advice from Guest1778152 | 12-31-2007 20:24 | E : 0 | S : 0
I've never really had that problem until this last month or so. And it's the week before my period. And not really a whore, I just REALLY want to throw myself at this one guy. But I know that if I did, it would freak him out big time and probably ruin any chance of a relationship, scare him away you know? :) Instead of looking for pleasure from someone else, try creating it for yourself (if you know what I mean).
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advice from Guest1944851 | 01-01-2008 12:55 | E : 0 | S : 0
Save it up and give all that pent up sexual energy to the man you marry,
once you're married it's anything goes. Don't be ashamed or embarrassed by what your body does naturally. It's part of nature that you desire procreation when ovulating. One of the strongest drives in our genetic makeup. God would not have given you the desire if he didn't want you to use it. In the meantime masturbate, fantasize. It is not a sin. All references to onanism in the bible refer to men spilling their seed, nothing about women. By the way I an agnostic married man.
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advice from Guest1803981 | 01-03-2008 10:38 | E : 0 | S : 0
yep i can. i would like to save my virginity til marriage but sometimes i just get the "urge" mainly after my period. its embarassing to talk about to other people. anyway i understand just do what feels right to you. just remember sex is a very sensitive thing you have to also be emotionally ready for it as well as physically.
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advice from Guest1974347 | 01-05-2008 04:56 | E : 0 | S : 0
Yes! Have you tried masturbation? I have never seen the problem with having sex with someone you love. If you're married or not. If I was born back when the bible (or many other religious texts)was written I would've been married already. I also would probably be beaten, couldn't own land, couldn't talk to a man who wasn't family... Times change, I admire how you stay true to your beliefs but some beliefs are based on the situation thousands of years ago.
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advice from Guest1894172 | 01-09-2008 00:52 | E : 0 | S : 0
you know what? I consider myself very spiritual and went thru the same thing. It is wonderful to wait until your married, but what if you get married to the man you love when your 30 beccause of money, career, goals in life for yourself etc. enjoy life NOW, fall in love with someone you trust and enjoy making love, marriage is a peice of paper nowadays, and GOD PROTECTS PEOPLE WHO LOVE. 1000 yrs ago it was best to wait until marriage because of illegitmate children being born, STD's etc. if we take care of ourselves its not necessary! just like how women used to rely on men for moeny, we dont need to rely on the government to have sex
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advice from Guest1881819 | 12-29-2007 02:07 | E : 1 | S : 2
uhm yes!!!!! but you know what religon does not work if it does not work for you, i mean why would u have beliefs in somthing if it doesnt believ in you,,,, thats why i became a buhdist, its great, i chose what takes me to heaven, (p.s. heaven doesnt have to be after life, why would u wan to live a life of not wanting to do what you want so that maybe later you can have fun. im not sure if this is helping at all but....do what u think u need to do.
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advice from Guest1864351 | 12-31-2007 16:38 | E : 0 | S : 1
COMPLETELY! You should invest in a dildo or vibrator to satisfy those craving. That way you're not sacrificing your morals for your needs.
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advice from Guest1949120 | 01-02-2008 02:39 | E : 0 | S : 1
you're being uptight about it.don't be a whore by anymeans, but go have fun. be careful. but loosen your beliefs up. God will not hate you if you play around a bit. learn yourself.

ps.i don't like that word either! :)
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advice from Guest1955879 | 01-02-2008 22:26 | E : 0 | S : 1
buy a dildo
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advice from Guest1973400 | 01-05-2008 01:41 | E : 0 | S : 1
look, if you want to let yourself loose once in a while, go right ahead, no one is going to hate you,
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