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you killed yourself and im sorry i couldn't help you. I AM SORRY I MADE IT WORSE.
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Submitted 02-08-2007 06:10
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advice from Guest2446388 | 02-28-2007 09:43 | E : 4 | S : 1
I know exactly how you are feeling, my mom killed herself 3 years ago... but keep your head up. It wasn't your fault. and you didn't make it worst. their problems and final discission goes way deeper than you could control.I know its hard to believe that. And you probably don't want to hear it... so work through it on your own pace, thats the only way it will get better.
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advice from Guest853722 | 09-08-2007 13:28 | E : 1 | S : 0
my cousin who was my best friend started acting annoying in our senior year. She would be all excited and loud and then for days she would be all depressed and sad. I wanted to enjoy my senior year and it was exausting to deal with. I told her she was a drama queen and doing it for attention. She killed herself prom night, while I was in a limo having a great time. After her funeral, I heard my aunt say Bi-polar, I didn't even know what it was until I looked it up. Quess she wasn't a drama queen. I felt horrible for years and then realized if her mental illness hadn't been kept secret maybe.........
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advice from Guest821011 | 02-13-2007 20:16 | E : 2 | S : 2
Everyone feels that way - talk to someone about it. Honour their memory and live for two.
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advice from Guest2371304 | 02-19-2007 22:47 | E : 1 | S : 1
It's never YOUR fault.
Suicide is something that happens.
It was the persons choice,
you should never blame yourself.
[But just in case you cant understand that, I forgive you]
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advice from Guest2390749 | 02-22-2007 02:19 | E : 0 | S : 0
honey you couldn't have made it worse. The person who died obviously was depressed and depression is a disease. As you probably know this person's chemical balances were out of kilter in his/her brain. This person was unable to think rationally. As a nurse i can tell you once a person has made a plan to suicide there is nothing you can do. Everything you said or done would have been in intepreted wrong as that is how the disease works; it is similar to cancer once it takes hold. Honey stop blaming yourself. This is a totally shit time for you and you don't need guit, regret and hindsight mixed in with your grief. Please remember hindsight is 20-20 and that you are only human. The person in question was obviously lucky to have someone that cared for them the way you do and you can honour his/her memory every day. Remeber the good times you shared. SUICIDE IS NO ONE"S FAULT. Look after yourself honey and be kind to yourself.
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advice from Guest2416897 | 02-25-2007 00:50 | E : 0 | S : 0
I've been there. It sucks when you think you could have changed things, you could have said something, or done something to stop it. You can't. It's done, and over.
It's easy advice to give out, but harder advice to live. Don't beat yourself up too much, try and learn from it.
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advice from Guest2937396 | 04-21-2007 16:28 | E : 1 | S : 1
you say it like you pushed me over the edge, but in all honesty you were the reason I stuck around so long :)
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advice from Guest2993605 | 05-06-2007 23:49 | E : 0 | S : 0
My friend when I was young killed herself. I was full of regrets, it took me YEARS to say and believe what I'm about to say.
Suicide is NO ONES fault. The person who did it isn't at fault, she/he had a disease. A chemicle imballence.
Her/his friends/family/enemys aren't to blame either. The disease is to blame.
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advice from Guest3127074 | 05-17-2007 12:16 | E : 0 | S : 0
You didn't make it worse, honest. Fall onto your knees before Christ, break down before Him. He will forgive you even if you can't forgive yoursself. He will take your troubles and raise you up.
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advice from Guest3314752 | 07-02-2007 07:17 | E : 0 | S : 0
My friend passed away this year. I know what you mean, the pain and guilt feels like it'll never fade away. But it's not your fault and I'm sure the persn you're referring to doesn't want you to feel that it is either.
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advice from Guest2347241 | 02-16-2007 20:32 | E : 1 | S : 2
I forgive you
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advice from Guest2364447 | 02-19-2007 09:01 | E : 1 | S : 6
How could you have made it worse? S/he is dead!
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