stepson

I only pretended to care!! Deep down I was happy your mom stopped letting you come over. I talked your dad out of fighting her on it.
I'm sorry!!!!

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advice from Guest1250674 | 12-15-2007 22:38 | E : 12 | S : 2
OMG!! Are you my step-mother? I would have loved to have a relationship with my father, and I know my stepmother loves that I don't. I was a screw up when i was a kid. I had issues - like a lot of kids of divorce do. I worked through them. Thats what people do, but family is important. Expecially to children.
I honestly can't believe any adult woman would be happy about this. When you married him, the children were part of the package. You should at least try to consider how the kid may feel.
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advice from Guest1836742 | 12-20-2007 15:36 | E : 10 | S : 2
When you married your husband, you married their children. If I were to EVER find out that my husband felt this way about my son, My husband would be gone, just the same way YOU should be gone. Youre a low life b____!
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advice from Guest2268274 | 02-05-2008 18:48 | E : 7 | S : 0
i have honestly lost all respect for people like you. my step mom was the same way. she RUINED my relationship with my father and then he died a few years later. i will never forgive her for what she has taken from me.
you are a very selfish person.
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advice from Guest2225657 | 01-31-2008 18:14 | E : 7 | S : 2
You're a selfish bitch, and those kids don't have a father in their life because of it.
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advice from Guest3271948 | 02-01-2008 08:40 | E : 5 | S : 0
I think its fairly natural to resent the ties one's partner has with previous relationships and to a certain extent, children. Especially if they are allowed to get away with murder because the parents feel guilty for disrupting thier lives. However, a parent should never let a relationship with a child fall by the wayside. if your stepson's mother won't let him come over, encourage your husband to catch up with him via email, sms, telephone, letter, and catch up in person, just the two of them. They are father and son and that is a bond that neds to be cherished.
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advice from Guest2596507 | 03-11-2008 00:55 | E : 3 | S : 0
i think its kinda harsh what some of you are saying, i for one, no longer have a relationship with my dad because the woman he married went off us wen she had kids, if you dont like the children, go out when they visit, dont try and stop them seeing their dads, it has nothing to do with you, altho i also wonder what these men must be like if they put up with you.
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advice from Guest2357336 | 03-14-2008 23:00 | E : 2 | S : 0
Please. You are not sorry. This is why I would never divorce.
The children are the ones who suffer. You'll get yours though.
I had a stepmother and they sent me to bording school for high-
school, but no matter how far you sent you, there is no breaking
the bond. Parents and children will always have a stronger bond
than that of a new husband or wife. I've grown with my own family,
Im still close to my dad, he still will do anything for me (even if
it is behind her back), and she has been and always will be insanely
jealous. You will be the one to suffer the most. Trust me!!!!!!
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advice from Guest907050 | 01-06-2008 18:02 | E : 2 | S : 1
aaa the two of you at the bottom are pretty f_____ up. just so you know. its awful that you consider your stepchildren a burden the way you obviously do. its actually quite sad and ironic because someday when you are too feeble and old to take care of yourselves you'll realize that you don't have anyone to take care of you because you'll have ostracized them all. haha I dont envy you your lonely old age and the possibility that those children will come back to whine and b____ about their rightly inheiritance (or compensation).
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advice from Guest2277392 | 02-06-2008 22:06 | E : 1 | S : 0
Can someone try to advice instead of critisize? since you're sorry it means you are a nice person deep down inside. follow your heart. having someone share your husband is not easy, but love comes in different packages. he loves you both in different ways. Allow that love. Try harder, you'll feel better and he will respect you more!
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advice from Guest2369789 | 02-17-2008 13:31 | E : 0 | S : 2
It is HARD! sometimes you love the guy ur gonna marry but u just Cant love the kid. I'm there too.. its tough
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advice from Guest1208784 | 10-22-2007 09:15 | E : 1 | S : 5
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My stepdaughter severed her relationship with my husband because her mother's 10+ years of brainwashing finally paid off. Now that he no longer has to deal with her teenage drama, OR her psycho mother, my husband is the happiest he's ever been.
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advice from Guest1157114 | 10-22-2007 00:01 | E : 1 | S : 10
Oh my GOD please more more i for one want to know why he can't come over anymore because i would LOVE it if my step daughters couldn't come over anymore, nothing would make me any happier, i hate those whinny little brats. i bought a dog that grew up to be 100 pounds, i was hoping their mom would freak out and be scared of those brats being around my dog but she didn't care, don't get me wrong thats not the reason i got the dog, i really LOVE my dog and really hate those whinny attention seeking little brats
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