theres no girl for me

So im 20 yrs old,im atraight and everthing. But the thing is I can never seem to find love. It hurts me alot. I feel ugly at times. The thing is I consider myself to be a pretty good looking guy. But no girls ever seem to exist for me. I have never been on a date or even had a girlfriend. I feel like such a dumbass. I am so depressed thinking about this. please help.
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advice from Guest996746 | 09-22-2007 00:25 | E : 4 | S : 0
your not the only one, im a 20 year girl, never had any serious relationships, cant seem to find love. dont blame yourself, girls like a confident (not OVERLY confident) guy. just be yourself, its as simple as asking someone out for a coffee. in 10 years time you'll regret the things you didn't do not the things you did. so man up and ask someone out, if it works fantastic, if not move on and try again. think of what your missing by not taking the first step....
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advice from Guest1291177 | 10-31-2007 04:16 | E : 1 | S : 0
Hey. All i can say is ask a girl out. It doesn't have to be someone you know. I once had a guy ask me out in a book shop because we liked the same book... we dated 5 months. The worst that can happen is she will say no .. and as much as that would hurt i'm sure you'll find at least one girl who'll say yes. Most girls (at least the ones i know) want a guy to say hi first, so go ahead! May be at first try just saying something to a girl you find attractive, start small talk conversation. Next time go a bit further and with practice you'll get more confidence and next thing you know you get dates all the time :) Good luck to ya!

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advice from Guest1255234 | 11-09-2007 17:31 | E : 1 | S : 0
your 20, hit the clubs and knock over about 10-20 hoodrats and then you'll be alright.....

seriously, you'll know when it's time, when you've found someone. make sure she's a good one though.,

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advice from Guest1600282 | 12-03-2007 23:27 | E : 1 | S : 0
I blame hollywood! On television, everyone is always gettin some. When in fact about 75% of girls and 58% of guys don't even get their first real kiss until their college years. You're not a minority, you're the majority. My advice is to expand out of your comfort zone. Get into a situation where ur bound to meet someone new. -Mary
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advice from Guest1095993 | 10-06-2007 21:26 | E : 0 | S : 0
there is someone for everyone and you will find someone...there could be someone right under your nose, or that you have had some sort of relationship with, that you dont even know likes you...
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advice from Guest1138068 | 10-12-2007 16:56 | E : 0 | S : 0
I am 22 and never had a boyfriend ... i still have hope ... you should too

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advice from Guest1259516 | 10-27-2007 06:34 | E : 0 | S : 0
she'll find you, and you'll forget that you ever felt ugly

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advice from Guest1341382 | 11-06-2007 02:42 | E : 0 | S : 0
I'm 20 like yourself and as much as it sux you just gotta stop trying...as stupid as it sounds we girls are more interested in a guy that isn't trying so hard....I mean don't get me wrong we want to be treated right but don't beg for our attention and were beg for yours

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advice from Guest1413198 | 11-12-2007 17:56 | E : 0 | S : 0
im 18 & neva been on a date or hadda boyfriend ssooo ur not the only 1 i feel like i can relate with everything u said
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advice from Guest1108137 | 11-14-2007 18:09 | E : 0 | S : 0
It will happen. Be patient. And in the meantime, have fun.
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advice from Guest1541187 | 11-23-2007 23:29 | E : 0 | S : 0
I have to say, I am right there with you. I'm a 19 year old female, never had a boyfriend, never been kissed, never had associations with guys pretty much no matter how much I want it. But I believe that one day I will find someone...no matter how depressing it is to me now
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advice from Guest1394593 | 11-24-2007 13:16 | E : 0 | S : 0
maybe we could talk. my email is [moderated: email removed]

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advice from Guest1566468 | 11-26-2007 18:06 | E : 0 | S : 0
i used to always feel like that, i have a girlfriend now, and i feel if i dont have her, ill never have anyone, sometimes i wonder why she loves me, i used to always look at myself in the mirror, but dont get down man, if girls dont give you a chance then they dont deserve you, once you find that person you will have a different look on yourself, keep ur chin up man
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advice from Guest3357928 | 11-28-2007 00:21 | E : 0 | S : 0
i'm 20 years old and i have been on dates but i feel like i will never have a connection with anyone. don't worry, you are not alone. and thanks for posting this. it made me feel like there was someone out there that understood me.
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advice from Guest1634354 | 12-02-2007 23:25 | E : 0 | S : 0
I'm 22 and I've never had a boyfriend. I've never been on a date or even kissed guy. So if you think you're a dumbass then all you have to do is continuously read this comment and you won't feel so dumb anymore.
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advice from Guest1625422 | 12-03-2007 19:24 | E : 0 | S : 0
your not a dubmass you just have to wait for the right person. i understand how you feel im not 20 but im 17 and ive never had a serious relationship or anything and for a while i felt lonely but i realized that in time everything will fall into place so dont worry about maybe we're meant to be together <3
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advice from Guest1646739 | 12-04-2007 00:17 | E : 0 | S : 0
The thing about this is that women are attracted to men who believe in themself. I'm not saying that you are ugly, but you could be hideous and have a good heart and a strong mind and genuinely care for people, and the truth is in the end you will have as many that love you as some dumb Adonis. You just have to have faith in yourself that you are worth one person's love... YOUR OWN.
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advice from Guest1678548 | 12-06-2007 22:22 | E : 0 | S : 0
The rule of asking girls out is the average guy gets 10 NOs for every YES but that Yes should be the only one that matters. In other words if the girls say no. Don't let it get to you. You seem really nice and I'll bet that there may be a girl out there who likes you but is to shy to make. I know this cause I'm a girl and that's what we do. :^) Good Luck.
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advice from Guest1696636 | 12-08-2007 01:45 | E : 0 | S : 0
Im a 17 year old female and I've never had a serious relationship and I sometimes feel like Im ugly because I dont have a boy friend. I know its a really upsetting feeling.
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advice from Guest1694527 | 12-08-2007 20:15 | E : 0 | S : 0
you're only twenty! you shouldn't feel like something is wrong with you because you haven't had a relationship. until two years ago, you weren't even a legal adult. you have eighty years to figure it out. in the meantime, ask someone out and enjoy yourself. you needn't be in such a hurry.
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advice from Guest1558285 | 12-10-2007 05:13 | E : 0 | S : 0
don't give up. u'll find her. evryone deserves love
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advice from Guest1652777 | 12-10-2007 13:25 | E : 0 | S : 0
Your only 20 years old you have your whole life a head of you. don't sweat it things tend to go your way when you don't worry about it. live it up and if there are no gurls that like you they are just not good enough for you.
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advice from Guest1734446 | 12-11-2007 10:41 | E : 0 | S : 0
Everyone keeps telling me that it will happen when you least expect it to. don't be in a hurry. 20 is still so young! experience life, meet people, and i'm sure the right girl will come along. could it be me?
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advice from Guest1734446 | 12-11-2007 10:43 | E : 0 | S : 0
Everyone keeps telling me that it will happen when you least expect it to. don't be in a hurry. 20 is still so young! experience life, meet people, and i'm sure the right girl will come along. could it be me?
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advice from Guest1743177 | 12-12-2007 08:05 | E : 0 | S : 0
just go up to someone you think is attractive in the street, or try and catch her eye, if she looks back why not go and ask her out, or ask her for her number, the worst that can happen is a rejetion but everyone gets that. Cheer up!
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advice from Guest998064 | 09-22-2007 04:06 | E : 0 | S : 1
Well, there's no guy for me. Maybe we're meant to be.
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advice from Guest1008832 | 09-23-2007 21:38 | E : 0 | S : 1
Well, I think you need to stik to one girl you truly love and don't gie up, beause she will see that you truly love her and will trust you
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advice from Guest1395813 | 11-10-2007 18:48 | E : 0 | S : 1
im pretty sure im going to end up like this when im your agae.
im fourteen year old girl, and all my friends are already happy with someone.
like i know im too young for anything serious,
but i feel so ugly since i dont have a boyfriend,
even though people tell me im not.

the truth is im so afraid of ending up alone.
all i can say to you is keep your head up.
i believe theres someone out there for everyone,
you just havent found that person yet.
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advice from Guest1014469 | 09-24-2007 17:54 | E : 1 | S : 4
lol thanks you. =)
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advice from Guest1666018 | 12-05-2007 19:38 | E : 0 | S : 3
have you ever watched that show with the losers and the pretty but dumb girls?
well the losers are really ugly, but when they get a makeover you all of a sudden see they're not so ugly after all, they just needed a good makeover.
*hint hint*
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