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There's this girl...and well, i really love her. I don't know how to tell her and i don't know if she feels the same way. I've felt this way since as long as I've known her. I don't know if I should make a move. I need some advice
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Submitted 07-19-2007 22:45
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advice from Guest757905 | 08-22-2007 21:13 | E : 3 | S : 0
my friend of 10 years just told me he likes me and has for 10 years. I wish he would of told me before i got married.
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advice from Guest3171997 | 08-10-2007 03:04 | E : 2 | S : 0
As long as there are no other complicating factors (either of you having a current relationship, for example) why not? Give it a go!
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advice from Guest3570727 | 08-10-2007 19:02 | E : 1 | S : 0
go for it. as long as shes not preoccupied with someone else there doesn't seem to be any reason for her not to be open to something. try doing something pretty romantic too. she'll love that
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advice from Guest3482787 | 08-24-2007 23:53 | E : 0 | S : 0
shes probably feeling the same way.
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advice from Guest831578 | 08-29-2007 23:50 | E : 0 | S : 0
i kind of wish this was to me... go for it or you will regret it.
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advice from Guest848654 | 09-01-2007 22:08 | E : 0 | S : 0
I've been pretty much inlove with my best friend for over a year...
She says he loves me too, she's just inlove with the guy I grew up with who she's been with for over a year.
BUt it never stopped us...
Go for it!
And good luck xxx
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advice from Guest934813 | 09-14-2007 06:21 | E : 0 | S : 0
sweety she probably knows. Girls usually know when a guy likes us and if we feel the same way we let it show. Just ask her out on a date and see if she says yes. If she doesnt want it to happen she wont say yes and then you dont have to drop the LOVE bomb on her and make things awkward.
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advice from Guest940842 | 09-15-2007 04:56 | E : 0 | S : 0
Dude if you really like her try asking her out of nothing will probably ever happen. I know its hard but its the only way.
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advice from Guest883589 | 09-15-2007 17:32 | E : 0 | S : 0
show and tell her. if she feels the same way then both of you would be happy but if not then at leas you're able to tell her what you feel ...
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advice from Guest944744 | 09-15-2007 21:11 | E : 0 | S : 0
you will never know what could've been unless you say something. If she says she likes just being friends, at least you won't have to wonder about what might have been.
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advice from Guest947305 | 09-16-2007 05:39 | E : 0 | S : 0
you'll regret it for the rest of your life if you don't. and if she says no, you can move on and look at it as not wasting your time any longer. go for it, man.
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advice from Guest948425 | 09-16-2007 10:35 | E : 0 | S : 0
Been there, done that. Definitely ask her out, but try not to make too big a deal out of it cos you don't want things to be awkward if she says no or to come on too strong. If you don't make a move you will totally regret it. Never die wondering!
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advice from Guest949319 | 09-16-2007 13:28 | E : 0 | S : 0
please tell her, how i wish your my friend the guy that im waitng for to tell me that he loves me.
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advice from Guest955471 | 09-17-2007 00:15 | E : 0 | S : 0
do it. you might regret it the rest of your life. im sure she knows... dont make her wait.
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advice from Guest959883 | 09-17-2007 15:23 | E : 0 | S : 0
just do it, if you're good enough friends you can work it out. lifes too short not to
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advice from Guest962871 | 09-17-2007 23:45 | E : 0 | S : 0
I think you should make your move.
Unless you have a girlfriend.

I feel the same way right now, except with a guy. :/

good luck.
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advice from Guest2626906 | 09-18-2007 02:43 | E : 0 | S : 0
HAHA I like the guy that said girls qwere smarter and bolder because it seems to me it's the oposite I'm a girl and I've liked guys plenty of times and I;ve never done anything about it really. I like to assume if a guy likes me he'll make the 1st move. If she likes you she might just be waiting for you to do soemthing....the least you can do is drop a few dozen OBVIOUS hints..if she seems uncomfortable maybe she doesn;t feel the same way if she opens up more or at leaste seems the slightest bit flattered go for it!
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advice from Guest970622 | 09-18-2007 19:13 | E : 0 | S : 0
I think you should go for it! You never really know what could happen till you jump. If she says no, then walk away with the experience... but imagine.... what if she said yes?!
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advice from Guest1207401 | 10-23-2007 04:58 | E : 0 | S : 0
you should go for it

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advice from Guest2227286 | 01-31-2008 22:32 | E : 0 | S : 0
i think you should just tell her and see how she reacts because she may be a perfect match for you
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advice from Guest3570727 | 08-10-2007 19:02 | E : 0 | S : 1
go for it. as long as shes not preoccupied with someone else there doesn't seem to be any reason for her not to be open to something. try doing something pretty romantic too. she'll love that
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advice from Guest893322 | 09-07-2007 21:56 | E : 0 | S : 1
Nope, if she liked you in the same way she'd have probably said or done something by now. Unlike us guys, most girls are smarter and bolder about letting thier true feelings known. Assuming you're both a mature age and you're in love vs lust or infatuation.
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