This Girl

Ive known this girl for a few years now. she is nothing like me and not even the kind of person i would be attracted to normally, but there is something about her. We're friends and thats cool, but sometimes i want to be more. Sometimes i get the impression that she wants to be more as well, but I'm not sure. I don't know if i want to risk the friendship and make it awkward by making a move.

Category Romance

advice from Guest3278037 | 06-23-2007 23:51 | E : 2 | S : 0
i tell almost everyone who has a problem this same thing. its better to regret doing something than regret not doing something. think about it when making a decision as what to do.
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advice from Guest3116075 | 05-12-2007 16:44 | E : 1 | S : 0
Tell her....please. You will always wonder what could have been if you don't and one day it might be too late.

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advice from Guest3216076 | 06-09-2007 06:18 | E : 1 | S : 0
please! tell her. she may be waiting for you
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advice from Guest2626906 | 07-14-2007 21:46 | E : 1 | S : 0
the same thing happens to me with this guy I used to date and I'm just waiting around for him to make some kind of move...it's almost like he's hinting that he likes me so I drop a few hints here and there trying 2 get him to do somethign about it. If she doesn;t like you odds are she'll be flattered anyways and if u guys are really good friends then it shouldn't make that big of a difference, tell her how you feel and if she doesn;t like you back then just laugh it off and be friends it's better then nothing. careing about some1 shouldn't have to be a secreteven though I know it's terrifying
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advice from Guest3116021 | 05-12-2007 16:31 | E : 1 | S : 1
Stuff it! Make a move! If you don't you will regret it for ever. And if everything goes wrong well, she will forgot in time.
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advice from Guest3210111 | 06-07-2007 10:55 | E : 0 | S : 0
hunny take it from the girl thats totally different from u tell her she'd want to know
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advice from Guest3236388 | 06-13-2007 23:47 | E : 0 | S : 0
I wish that this was meant to be said about me. I have a similar situation.

Tell her. You will regret it if you don't.
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advice from Guest3292603 | 06-27-2007 08:06 | E : 0 | S : 0
lol, I'm in a similar situation.
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advice from Guest3318198 | 07-03-2007 00:39 | E : 0 | S : 0
Tell her. Tell her for both of us.
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advice from Guest3383706 | 07-15-2007 06:40 | E : 0 | S : 0
I'm on the other end of the scale...i know a guy and i feel like he wants more but i cant really contact him. I want more 2, im just scared to tell him. I have seen him like 2 times in my life and wish he would contact me...Its complicated coz we are sort of related but not closely. Take my advice...tell her. The most she can do is turn you down. And i dont know 2 many girls that wouldnt feel happy to know a guy likes them. No true female worth wanting will be rude - they will be honest but in a caring/gentle way.
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advice from Guest3384486 | 07-15-2007 11:10 | E : 0 | S : 0
i have the same problem only with the guy i like, i think you should tell her, i know its hard, and you might not know wat to say, but try, because she might be waiting for you, i know im waiting for him...
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advice from Guest3400240 | 07-17-2007 16:12 | E : 0 | S : 0
Just do it! You'll regret it so much when you see her with someone else and think "That should've been me...". And if she is trully your friend, she will remain as such. A strong friendship isn't that easily broken.
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advice from Guest3098882 | 07-18-2007 09:40 | E : 0 | S : 0
tell her.one of my boy mates recently told me he liked me.i'd never have made the first move but once it was out in the open we got together and its amazing
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advice from Guest3414380 | 07-19-2007 14:02 | E : 0 | S : 0
Tell her. There is a good chance that if she has shown that she likes you, she probably does. I wish you were the guy that I like, we are so different, but you can't be because unlike you, who has seen that she may like you in return, he has never shown me any interest. Tell her, ask her out, show her this post of yours. You will regret it less than if you never say anything. I would bet that she is waiting for you to do something first.
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advice from Guest3431206 | 07-22-2007 07:30 | E : 0 | S : 0
100% of the shots you don't take will never happen so just ask her
there's nothing to lose.
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advice from Guest3455186 | 07-25-2007 20:43 | E : 0 | S : 0
just tell her.
take a risk.
you wont regret it.
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advice from Guest3558353 | 08-09-2007 11:06 | E : 0 | S : 0
Making a "move" is a different gesture than talking to her. If you make a "move" she is going to react by ask "what the hell your doing?"... If you talk to her about your feelings, she will open up to you.
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advice from Guest949319 | 09-16-2007 12:54 | E : 0 | S : 0
tell her, how i wish a guy friend that im inloved would tell me that he feels that same way too, like you do, who might know she's just waiting for you. gGo and tell her, Good Luck
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advice from Guest3119419 | 05-13-2007 16:28 | E : 1 | S : 2
awww sweetie if you guys are good enough friends nothign will get in the way of that. not even dating and breaking up

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advice from Guest2992785 | 06-24-2007 21:52 | E : 0 | S : 1
i don't want to be a downer but we don't live in the movies. i've been in this situation and said something, we haven't talked since. but not knowing is worse that being rejected
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advice from Guest3338783 | 07-08-2007 12:06 | E : 0 | S : 1
i was in the opposite situation. my best friend told me i was the special one, the girl he loved. it happened 2 months ago. i hadn't talk to him for a week, i didn't know what to do. i finally told him i don't want to be more than a friend. now we're still friend, exactly like we was before he told me that. but i dunno how he feel about that.
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